Sometimes normal chitchat is the most insightful of all. Once a session is over, either by me allowing you to orgasm or telling you to put it away and stop touching lol, I often (but not always) just… talk with my puppets. My interests are so varied that I can usually find something we have in common. I also learn new things depending on your non-fetish related passions like: gardening, going green, law, science, literature etc. During a session I may tell you how worthless you are as a man but afterwards you just might impress me with your knowledge of obscure fantasy novels or British comedy. hahaha This is one of my favorite things about being a distance domme. After I discover that you love wearing pretty panties or you need someone to control your chronic masturbation, I get to find out that you plant heirloom tomatoes or you get just as excited discussing our coin collections.

A couple of my long time puppets are experiencing financial difficulties due to this economic recession we’re in. I understand and sympathize with their plight and I appreciate their requests for a “break”. The rest are either in stable jobs with dependable income or they’re getting an extra thrill from living on the financial edge and still tributing me. Lovely, lovely puppets. hahaha
THEN there are the few that have contacted me recently. I’ve gotten these long winded, detailed emails about their fantasies out of the blue. I take the time to reply in my usual fabulous style and then recommend they set up an appointment for chat, email or phone. That’s when the new wanker excuse comes into play. They “really wish they could but they’ve lost soooo much money in the past few months”… blah blah blah. If you don’t have the money or don’t intend to spend the money to respect MY time and energy then you can keep your emails to yourself.
So, yes, financial domination is still alive and well in my world and wankers are still wankers. lol
On another note, I’ve been telling my puppets that feedback is not required. If you’ve had dealings with other NiteFlirt mistresses then you are excused from leaving feedback for me. I don’t want you to have to deal with wacky drama. Personally, I don’t care. Anyone can try to say anything they want to me about “taking their subs”. I just roll my eyes and move on. So if you get a kick out of writing those glowing reviews, carry on. I do enjoy reading them but, again, they’re no longer required. If you’ve never used NiteFlirt then you have no clue what I’m talking about. That’s okay. Just know that it’s time to get with it and join our happy community. lol Start by listening to one of my wonderful recordings.

Oh! And Extreme Restraints is having a very nice Valentine’s Day sale (including the CB6000). Check it out by clicking the banner on the right side. I’m sure you’ll find something fun (or scary) that we can play with.

I figure that no updates from me in a few months deserves another issue of my Femdom News. Why? Because this is an easy way for me to throw together some random stuff. lol
1. I’ve really settled into a more country lifestyle after my move last Fall. The view of the pond from my back deck is amazing! There are trees, flowers and bushes everywhere and an orchard next door. The only drawback is I have to drive further to go shopping. lol So now I plan my trips to the “big city” and do more online shopping. So keep those email gift certificates coming. hehehe
2. Many of you knew that I was still around despite the lack of recent blog entries but it does look like I’ve lost a couple of puppets. That means I have time for new boys! If you’ve been curious about how we would click and how I would seductively dominate you, then visit my contact page and let’s get started. Don’t worry that I’ll demand a commitment right away. I expect you to decide if feel you can serve me just as I’ll decide if you’re worth my time and energy. lol Do NOT make the mistake of throwing around the term ‘financial domination’ if that’s not your thing. I’m not in this just for money so I won’t be chomping at the bit thinking I’m going to make a killing off of you. Be honest and don’t act like mr. moneybags if you aren’t. I have puppets from all income levels. It’s your devotion that matters most.
3. Having said that, if financial domination IS your thing be prepared for me to start financially draining you before you realize what’s happening. And if I mention anything about your retirement plan or daily tributes to prove that you’re always thinking about me… just relax and let things take their course. hahaha
4. Sometimes your (and my) fetishes, fantasies or fears change. If your thoughts start moving in another direction from where we started then speak up. For example, anyone that has read petproject’s blog has an idea of what he’s been into: tease and denial, porn and stroking addiction, forced intoxication etc. Lately there’s been a hint of humiliation in our sessions. Thoughts of approaching a sexy young lady (18-20 yrs old or so) and asking her out… only to be turned down and laughed at for being a “dirty old man” have started to make him squirm. Erotic humiliation used to be something I had no interest in. Something changed and now I get a thrill out of making grown men blush, stammer and even cry. So I created WankerLand.com and found like-minded women to terrorize sexual humiliation junkies.
5. Speaking of WankerLand.com, you may not know that we also have recordings for your listening… pleasure. lol They all deal with humiliation but to varying degrees so take a look and you may be surprised to see a few things that interest you (even if you think the whole humiliation thing is crazy).
6. And finally: Always remember to vote for me because it makes me smile (daily is good lol) and if you’re one of my lost puppets and you need to find your way back, start by sending a tribute and a polite message.

As many of you already know, I love to laugh and joke around. I don’t stress easily and my goal is not to stress you out. Our experience is supposed to be enjoyable (even if it hurts a little lol). I don’t tolerate drama and I don’t care what other Dommes are doing. What I am is strict. If I tell you to do something, I expect you to do it. No, I won’t ban you if you fail but I won’t give you many chances if you keep failing. I will let you know how I expect you to make up your mistakes and it wouldn’t be wise to ignore that.
I have a short list of rules and guidelines and they ONLY apply to my faithful puppets. If you’re only around for occasional tease and denial, wallet drainings or other fetish and femdom fantasies then you’ll have different guidelines tailored to our sessions. Those of you begging to serve as one of my puppets, pay attention.
1. Do not ignore my emails. Even if I’m only writing to say, “have a nice day”, I expect a response.
2. Except in the case of real emergencies, do not just disappear. I’ve taken the time to plan out emails, phone or chat sessions, assignments etc. If you’ve reached your financial, time or other limit a polite message letting me know is required. Failing to contact me will result in a stiff fine when you try to return.
3. Always be respectful and follow directions.
4. Always assume that you’ll have to give up control of your orgasms during a session. Seriously. If you’ve read all of my blog entries (as my puppets definitely need to do) then you know that denying you and making you beg is one thing that really gets my blood pumping.
5. Confess, apologize and make it up to me when you break any of my rules or mess up on any of the instructions I’ve given you. Be prepared to pay.

Only five major rules in my world. Help me avoid stress and annoyance by being obedient puppets.

In answer to those of you wondering if this site is still active… yes, it is. I’ve been busy with this and that so I haven’t been posting on this blog lately. I HAVE been toying with my desperate little puppets all along of course. lol So even if you don’t see anything new on my femdom blog, you can always play my envelope game, listen to my (cocksucking, tease and denial or financial domination) recordings, contact me for email or phone sessions and tribute/spoil me with cash through niteflirt or e-gift certificates. Go over every inch of this website because I have tons of stuff to lure you into my web. hahaha
I’m off to run some errands but look for a brand new blog entry this weekend.

I have been very busy lately. I’m moving! Yes, again. lol Some of you have noticed that my amazon wishlist no longer has an address attached to it and that is because of the move. I’m not sure when I’ll have a new mailbox for those lovely presents but (before you start crying) there is an easy solution. Send an amazon gift certificate to my email address, tell me what you’re just dying to buy for me and I’ll buy it and send you a photo. I’ve always used a private mailbox at a UPS store for your gifts so it will be nice to have them delivered to my doorstep instead. I hope the delivery guys at my new location will be cute. There’s nothing better in the afternoon than a hot guy with arms loaded offering to carry packages to any room I like while trying to pretend he’s not looking me up and down. lol Boys are silly.
It’s been almost a month since my birthday but my entire birthday month was incredible! I have such wonderful puppets. I’m definitely going to have to do that again next year.
Oh and speaking of silly boys, petproject has a $600 decision to make by Monday afternoon. What he doesn’t know is that his money will buy one of you lucky freaks an orgasm. No, I won’t be giving you unlimited attention but I will give you permission to cum. I know how badly some of you just need the permission of a dominant woman whether you’re in a session or not. It’s yours for free if he follows through. Keep your fingers crossed and your eyes on the comments to this blog entry. That’s where I’ll update and let you know how you can earn a tiny bit of my attention.
The WankerLand site is really doing well. Already a few losers have found a new Mistress that really tells them how it is. lol If your kink is sexual humiliation, then head over and do what you do best… get an erection, act like an idiot and follow my directions to finally learn where you fit in this crazy world. I really am too nice.

Yes, today is the day. Oh, glorious day. I hope you’ve all marked this holy occasion on your calendars. I’m one year wiser, one year more manipulative and greedy, one year more breathtakingly beautiful and one year more in control of you (for my lucky puppets).

October is MY birthday month. I love my birthday. lol I love attention and presents and cake and parties. Since I am so nice I’m going to let you participate in the festivities. For October there will be four tasks, one for each week. Pick one week to participate or make me happy all month long by doing all four. With each new week comes a more expensive task so you poor little subs better make sure you jump on week one.

Week One (Oct 1-7) I want a birthday letter from you. Write about anything you like as long as you make sure the focus is on ME, MY birthday and how wonderful I am (or how much you dream of serving ME). Of course there’s always the option of sending a tribute or gift with your letter but with this task that’s not necessary. Send it to my niteflirt account or email me: abigail AT seductivedomination DOT com

Week Two (Oct 8-14) For this week I want you to buy something from my Amazon wishlist. If you don’t want to buy something, instead you can send an Amazon gift certificate for the amount you’d like to spend and tell me what gift you’d like it to go towards. I’ll be adding to my wishlist this week to make sure there are items in all price ranges.

Week Three (Oct 15-21) This will be gift certificate week. Send electronic gift certificates to my email address. Either send one from Amazon or you can contact me to find out if there’s another store I’d also like. Minimum amount to send for this week is $50.

Week Four (Oct 22-31) One thing that always puts a smile on my face is cold, hard cash. lol For the final ten days of this month I want your money. Click the tribute buttons over on the right and pay as many times as you like. Total contribution for this task is a minimum of $100.

Some of my puppets have other birthday tasks but they are welcome to participate in these in addition to whatever else I’m having them do. Remember that if you’re late to the party, you missed out on previous week’s tasks but you can join with whichever is current.
Note: Yes, I will post birthday letters here… the good ones anyway. lol Click here to read them: (more…)

These posts should really be called something like “Abigail’s Ramblings” instead of Femdom News. Oh well. I’ll try to add at least one news worthy item. Maybe. lol
1. In case you didn’t see it in the earlier post, I have a new site for erotic humiliation. WankerLand.com Go check it out. If the domination I provide isn’t quite what twists your panties, you’ll be able to find the perfect woman there. Read their information carefully. Don’t say I didn’t warn you if you find a Domme that humiliates you so effectively that you’re crying for days. hahaha
2.For those of you that get off on just browsing websites about dominant females, financial domination, tease and denial etc, I’ve made it easier for you. I know your brain isn’t working so well when your turned on so here’s a page with all of my blog photos. Yes, all in one place. Some of you are only capable of looking at pictures anyway. For future reference you can also find that link over on the left.
3.Many of you have noticed that my yahoo ID (abigail_light_and_dark) is readily available. I don’t mind chatting with the unwashed masses as long as you don’t ask questions that I’ve already answered on this website. Not only is that disrespectful, it’s so annoying. And don’t think I’m going to chat with you all night long without any sort of tribute or gift. Believe it or not, your penis and your freaky fantasies don’t always make for scintillating conversation.
4.I have received so many comments lately about petprojects blog. It seems you’re evenly divided between feeling bad for him (because I’m so mean) or being jealous of him because of our intense sessions. Both of those opinions please me. lol Remember that The Fool’s blog is still gathering dust and is open for one of you humiliation dummies to take over. Contact me for more information.
5.A few more of you have gone crazy with my Random Envelope Game. Seeing how much fun one boy had with it today reminds me that it’s time to switch it up again. I’ll be working on that this weekend and you’ll see the new switch date on that page when I’m finished.
6.Except for a minor slip-up this weekend, my new shopping puppet is doing well. I picked up the first batch of gifts from my mailbox today (including the new charm bracelet from buster). Between today’s packages, the monthly coffee pods petproject sends and the Starbucks card that buster refills every month, I think I’m mostly set for caffeine. lol I don’t often post photos of everything I receive… maybe I should change that since there seems to be interest in that… but here’s a picture of today’s haul. I’m expecting a few more boxes next week including three more pairs of shoes (do punked out wellingtons count? lol) from my shoe pet, buster. Now I’m off to add this picture to my blog photo page. Cheers.

The Labor Day holiday weekend was a good one. I played with my puppy buster… denying him one night and then allowing his “release” after he’d fulfilled an obligation. At the start of the weekend I had received three new pairs of shoes from him so he was also rewarded with new shoe photos. I’ve started buster on my new charm bracelet. It is his job to fill it with cute trinkets so if you see the Amazon wishlist I set up for charms, they are his to buy. Everyone else can realize their Abigail-spoiling dreams on my regular wishlist.
Speaking of my wishlist, I have a promising new puppet whose job is to clean my list. Shopping puppet is only allowed to buy items I’ve added in previous months. So he gets to pick up the tab on everything you slackers miss. Since my birthday is next month, hopefully there won’t be much left for him to purchase so maybe I’ll just take his money instead… or add more to the wishlist. lol
Now on to the subject I teased you about in the title: petproject has a fascination with sleep deprivation so I took full advantage of the long weekend. We started last Thursday with lots of attention and teasing on my part and lots of lube, edging and money on his part. There wasn’t any forced intoxication because I wanted him awake as long as possible. At first “as long as possible” was the goal. As the weekend progressed I had petproject pouring on the lube (literally… and it was a mess) to stroke, sucking one fake cock and, for the first time ever, taking his HUGE black dildo in his ass. All on cam. All great fun! Around Sunday we started talking about how many hours he’d been awake and the number was high. Even while I slept he was typing regularly in yahoo chat so I could make sure he didn’t fall asleep. As I watched his mind deteriorate and his fantasies become darker, I decided the new goal would be a full 100 hours of no sleep. That meant he had to stay awake until Monday morning. I wake up Monday afternoon and he’s still up (with more ass play all on his own). The poor thing went past the point where he was too tired to actually sleep. Later that evening, he’s still awake so I started him on the alcohol. At midnight I tell him to get the big, black dildo out again… and that’s when he passed out. LOL The next day I took pity on him and pushed him towards his only orgasm in almost a week. Without it he wouldn’t have been able to function at all. So much fun. hahaha
In addition to all of that, a few new hopefuls came around. I see more tease and denial, panty fetish and strap on training in their futures. Yes, a very good holiday weekend.

It seems like I’ve been working on my new website, WankerLand.com, for ever. I finally have it the way I like and now I just need to add info, blog posts etc. If you’re a dirty little wanker that’s into erotic humiliation (cuckold, financial exploitation, small penis humiliation, extreme verbal abuse and more) then visit, bookmark and call the mean bitches in my group. lol
The “lawnboy” that’s been taking care of my yard all summer isn’t doing the job as well as I’d like. He’s also really starting to bore me, so I’m going to have to find someone new. Sure, I had free lawncare and he was fun to pick on and tease but it’s time to move on. Which of you Princess spoilers are just dying to pay for this necessity? Message me and we’ll work something out. lol
I just have to show off the new Steve Madden, deep red, patent leather, peep-toed maryjanes (that’s a mouthful, huh?) that buster sent. Aren’t they gorgeous? Oh, and buster, there’s that perfect little open space for you to lick my toes.

I understand that some of you weren’t able to party properly on the 4th of July. That’s a shame. Personally, I had a blast. lol My evening started out great when I had petproject do some shopping for me, set him up with some drinking instructions and then left him all on his own while I went out with my friends. I think we should stretch the Independence Day festivities through the weekend. Contact me for your very own drinking instructions. I want to get you drunk and pliable. Think of me smiling when you wake up in the morning regretting everything you told me and gave me the night before. LOL

The weather is warmer, the women are wearing less and you guys are thrilled. lol I can’t wait to start teasing the silly men around here. Foot fetish boys are seeing more and more toes, soles, heels and arches. Shoes fetish boys will have a nicely frustrating summer full of sandals, wedges and peep-toe heels. I’m currently smitten with wedges and my shoe slave, buster, is more than happy to satisfy my pretty-shoe urges. Nothing could be more summery than my new steve madden shoes. Wouldn’t you agree? lol

On a different note, I want to mention a couple of things. First is Angela St. Lawrence’s post about Romantic Humiliation. He doesn’t mention it much in his blog, but petproject can certainly identify with much of what she wrote. lol That brand of humiliation may seem the meanest, but I have to say I get the most enjoyment out of it.
Secondly, I want to remind some of you to check your niteflirt/keen mail for the “The Lost Puppet Amnesty Program” message I sent out today. If I haven’t heard from you in a while, you should have the email. Yes, I do have my kind moments. Take advantage of them while you can.

Too much of my precious time has been spent on recent posts about the wankers that have crossed my path. I know many of you like to laugh at them along with me, but tonight’s post is all about my good boys.
I’m happy to say that petproject is traveling down the forced intoxication highway at break-neck speed. lol Who needs milk in your cereal when you have Baileys Irish Cream? I “help” him plan alcohol shopping trips and then tell him when, what and how much to drink. There have even been the occasional “drink cam” viewings. When I feel like it, I’ll click over to see his glass to determine if he’s drinking fast enough or not. hahaha You can read a little about it on his blog (link to the left). By the way… he still hasn’t had an orgasm. Two months and counting. A round of applause is in order. It’s gotten to the point where he doesn’t even mention it anymore, so maybe I’ll let him cum this weekend…
A trip to my mailbox on Thursday ended up with some random guy helping me carry the many boxes to my car. Included in this huge stack of gifts were two pairs of SteveMadden shoes (one pictured below) and two boxes of bath stuff off my Amazon wishlist… all from my favorite puppy, buster. He also preordered another pair of shoes that aren’t available until this summer. I HAD to have them! lol Such a wonderful little shoe slave. Too bad my puppy will be away all week. I’m in the mood to play.
There’s been a new addition to my fetish funhouse. Two of my favorite things all rolled into one package: financial domination and masturbation & orgasm control. Yum. I usually slip orgasm control into all of my sessions… because I like it so much, but when they come to me already craving my control over when and if they cum… Ahhh It doesn’t get much better than that. lol
Before this gets too long, I wanted to include recent feedback comments left by my puppets. For those that don’t know how niteflirt works, after any paid interaction with me, my boys are able to leave a “review” for everyone to read.

From busterThePuppy: “Thank you Mistress Abigail for taking your puppy buster and letting him spend the entire day at your feet. Thank you for letting your buster need you, yearn for you, wait for and on you. Thank you Mistress.”

From addictlion: “I was a bad wanker who came without permission. I am now not allowed to touch my cock and I must write an essay about how amazing Mistress Abigail is. She has total control of my cock, my stroking, my orgasms and my money.”

From AbigailsToy: “My Mistress was so kind tonight to let me cum tonight. She didn’t make it easy though. She took me to the edge countless times while she giggled at my frustration…that wonderful frustration…in the end it was worth it. But then again the fun is getting there, no matter the outcome. Being on edge for Mistress Abigail is the ultimate thrill, jus waiting for her insruction. I would do anything for her!!”

I love reading my feedback. lol Now for that photo of my new brown, leather pumps from buster:

I just had the most fun creating a new recording on niteflirt. It’s amazing how many emails and calls I get from wannabe-sluts that wish they could suck a cock for me. Well, before you go out into the big, bad world of hardons, you’ll want to take this little 14 minute course. Okay, yes, I do laugh at you during the whole thing but who can blame me? hahaha
Have you always dreamed of worshiping the large cock of a real man? This hands-on lesson will start you on your way to becoming a world class cock sucker!
“But Ms. Abigail, won’t that make me gay?” That depends. Practicing on fake cocks only means you wish you were gay. You’re not a full-blown fag until you swallow that first creamy load that you worked so hard for. LOL
“But Ms. Abigail, I probably won’t ever get the chance to suck a real cock.” Ugh. I can imagine you whining already. To work through your issues on that would require one-on-one manipulation (I mean counseling!) (oops! I mean “for entertainment purposes only!”)
Since I know you’re eager to begin your dick slurping journey, just grab something to suck and start the lesson. You get extra points if you already have a realistic dildo with a suction cup and balls attached for some chin slapping action. No points if you’re sucking your finger. How pathetic is that? At least grab a sausage or cucumber. Sheesh. I recommend you listen daily if for no other reason than to keep your jaws limber just in case that day comes where a real cock is in front of you needing a good sucking. Try to do a good job even though I’m laughing at you.
Step #1 Get on your knees… (click to continue)