There are quite a few reasons you may want me to tease and deny you. 1. you’re a sad loser lacking all social graces and you can’t find a woman that even cares to see your penis, much less fuck you, so why should I treat you any differently? 2. you want to please me and you know how much I enjoy keeping your aroused for as long as possible and then denying you an orgasm. Rinse and repeat. lol 3. you realize how much better that orgasm will feel when you have to wait a very long time for it, never knowing when you’ll finally be rewarded. I step in to help you achieve that since you don’t have enough self control on your own. Of course there are other reasons, but those are the top three that came to mind.
How does cuckolding fit into that? Well, the gist of cuckolding is that the object of your desire is screwing someone (everyone) besides you. Maybe you get to watch. Maybe you get to hear about it afterwards. Maybe you can only imagine what’s going on while you’re left at home. A lucky few of you may even get to help. Fluffers and cream pies, anyone? hahaha Unfortunately, you never get to fuck. Never fucking means never cumming. Sure you can jerk it as you listen to her moan, but does such a weak and pathetic excuse for a man really deserve an orgasm? It’s possible your lack of size makes the woman in your life run off to let a hung stud service her. I think a regimen of constant stroking and a ton of wishful thinking is in order. Cuckolds of the world, all is not lost! Staying constantly hard and showing your devotion daily may earn you that prize you seek. Probably not, but you never know. lol

If you don’t have a credit card, you’ve maxed out your current cards (evil grin) or you’re worried about wifey seeing your naughty charges then I have a solution for you. Pre-paid credit cards.
Thanks to Goddess Leesa for this first link. GreenDot If you have to save your lunch money or steal cash from your girlfriend’s purse (that’s so sad LOL) then this will work well for you. Buy this card at convenience stores or drugstores and you can either fund it online or at the store. Every time you find a little extra cash, add it to your card and then spend it on me. Doesn’t that sound fun?
I found this second link on a message board. WiredPlastic You can fund it a thousands of locations, wire transfer from your bank account, direct deposit or even from your pay pal account (a safe way to spend PP funds on adult transactions without fear of them freezing your account).
Pre-paid credit cards can be used the same as regular credit cards. Just think of the possibilities! Spend your money on me via NiteFlirt, my amazon wishlist or even the so very yummy Platinum Collection at Godiva.com
Now those of you that have expressed interest in being financially dominated by me or spoiling me have no excuse not to do so.

I haven’t yet gone live with my new NiteFlirt ‘tease and denial’ and ‘foot and shoe fetish’ lines, but I’ve already had a couple of very fun t&d calls. One boy certainly knew what the “denial” part was all about. The other was a little… confused. lol He said he wanted tease and denial but what he really wanted was masturbation control. Yes, puppets, there is a difference and I’ve written about this before. I enjoy both scenarios so if you have any questions, feel free to send an email (the info is on my contact page).
Both puppy tim and whipped jim have purchased gifts for me from my Amazon wishlist. Aren’t they just the sweetest? I now have the mini tripod (thank you, puppy) so I will try to take more photos this week. I have some lovely new shoes to show off. Maybe I’ll eventually get the hang of this new-fangled photo-graphy thing. hahaha In the meantime, here’s the picture of my ass-kicking boots that I promised.

I’ve created new listings for ‘foot and shoe fetish’ and ‘tease and denial’. NF approved them in record time so I’ll go live with them soon. I am in love with the thumbnail picture on the t&d listing. Is it bad to be in love with your own picture? lol I’ll include a larger version here so we can all stare at it together.

I was parked in a Yahoo chatroom the other day. A fellow Domme looked at this blog and took offense to the definition for ‘femdom’ that’s in the upper-left corner. She said that it would lead males to believe a woman’s power was only sexual. Sigh. Well, since I’m not there in person to dominate you 24/7 (critiquing your housekeeping, giving you an allowance, letting you serve me breakfast in bed etc) that means it pretty much IS sexual for the purpose of my website. As the cliche goes, the little head thinks for the big head. When you’re in that state of nirvana where the very thought of following my directions makes you all tingly, then it’s sexual. I always hear comments like: “I get so hard when I think about worshipping your feet”, “I’ve been aching all day waiting for an email from you”, “Please, I’m begging you! May I come for you, Mistress?”, “May I be your living sex toy and please you?” Yep, all sexual. Perhaps it’s me. Perhaps I’m the sexual one. I refuse to deny it. There’s no big, bad, scary Dominatrix here that insists her vagina is off limits. I have a beautiful pussy and I use it against you. Why on earth would I give up such a wonderful teasing tool just to adhere to some old school femdom rulebook? This is my little corner of the internet and I’m the one in charge. I am a dominant woman. I can do what I like.
On a similar note, you’ve probably noticed that I don’t capitalize “me, mine or my”. I don’t need to change English language rules to prove my dominance. I can’t be bothered. I do like it when I receive an email from a sweet submissive boy that went to the trouble to capitalize every “you, you’re and your”. Although it’s not necessary, attention to detail like that makes me smile.

If you look at the upper-left side, you’ll see links under “Important Pages”. I’ve updated my contact page, I’ve added my Amazon wishlist to the gifts/tributes page and I’ve created a new page for my so-called phone sex recordings. In the future there will be pages on financial domination, male chastity, tease and denial, foot fetish, shoe fetish, stocking and pantyhose fetish, cuckolds, puppy play and whatever else strikes my fancy.
Speaking of puppy play, Jasmine has written an excellent blog post on the subject. If that’s someting you’re interested in you should check it out. bdsm puppy play I’m betting she’s an incredibly cute puppy.

I see that quite a few of you have clicked the “form” link on my contact page, but only a handful have actually paid and filled it out. What’s the matter? Are you scared? hahaha Don’t worry. I don’t bite… oh, wait. Yes, I do, but only in a really fun way. I know one boy that is scared of me. Whenever I send him “pay to view” mail, he pays and then hides. He did respond to the last email I sent and I thank him for the laugh. Something about refusing to be my toy and then wanting to worship my toes? LOL
So, whipped Jim, if you read this here’s a picture for you. You can beg to kiss my beautiful behind or you can send a gift via NiteFlirt and maybe I’ll put up a picture of those toes you so adore.

Over the past two years I’ve gotten many calls from males that see me mention ‘tease and denial’ (t&d) as one of my favorite types of play. They want to be good boys so they try to please me by saying they want to be teased and denied. I’d say 90% have no clue what they’re asking for. There is a difference, dear puppets, between masturbation control and orgasm DENIAL. Both involve teasing (at least when you’re playing with me) but one is much more delicious than the other. During a masturbation control session, I tell you how to touch yourself. I tell you when to stop and start. I whisper all sorts of naughty things in your ear and if you’re lucky you may even have the chance to hear me pleasure myself. There’s nothing quite like the moans of frustration from you as you’re forced to STOP touching and just listen. hahaha I eventually allow you to orgasm, but only after you’ve begged and pleaded and promised me the world. That’s how I control your masturbation and your orgasm.
Now let’s look at the term ‘tease and denial’. Tease? Yes, we’ve covered that. Denial? Hmmm… The dictionary defines it as “refusal to grant or allow something “. Do you think it hurts me when I refuse to let you orgasm? Of course not. I’m tickled pink when you’re near tears because your balls are aching and you’re so close that one more stroke would send you over the edge. I’m thrilled and excited when you whimper and beg for release. I’m downright affectionate as I deny you day after day after day. I wonder how far I can push you, what you’ll promise me, how deep I can get into your mind and when will you finally break. Oh, don’t give up. After all, I could let you cum at any moment.