Exactly where you belong

October 2, 2008

Elite Fetish Award

by @ 1:59 am. Filed under Cuckold, Foot & Shoe Fetish, General Fetish, Phone Sex

I’m thrilled to join the ranks of Elite Fetish Award recipients. Now I get to choose a few of my favorite sites for nomination.

ELITE FETISH AWARD

Recognition for those sites and individuals who perform
outstanding support within the BDSM/Fetish Community
and for their continued efforts in keeping the
Kink in Kinky!!

Awarded to

Abigail of SeductiveDomination.com
by Lady Sascha

March 10, 2008

My Rules For Submissives

by @ 12:26 pm. Filed under General Fetish, Phone Sex, Submissives, Tease & Denial

As many of you already know, I love to laugh and joke around. I don’t stress easily and my goal is not to stress you out. Our experience is supposed to be enjoyable (even if it hurts a little lol). I don’t tolerate drama and I don’t care what other Dommes are doing. What I am is strict. If I tell you to do something, I expect you to do it. No, I won’t ban you if you fail but I won’t give you many chances if you keep failing. I will let you know how I expect you to make up your mistakes and it wouldn’t be wise to ignore that.
I have a short list of rules and guidelines and they ONLY apply to my faithful puppets. If you’re only around for occasional tease and denial, wallet drainings or other fetish and femdom fantasies then you’ll have different guidelines tailored to our sessions. Those of you begging to serve as one of my puppets, pay attention.
1. Do not ignore my emails. Even if I’m only writing to say, “have a nice day”, I expect a response.
2. Except in the case of real emergencies, do not just disappear. I’ve taken the time to plan out emails, phone or chat sessions, assignments etc. If you’ve reached your financial, time or other limit a polite message letting me know is required. Failing to contact me will result in a stiff fine when you try to return.
3. Always be respectful and follow directions.
4. Always assume that you’ll have to give up control of your orgasms during a session. Seriously. If you’ve read all of my blog entries (as my puppets definitely need to do) then you know that denying you and making you beg is one thing that really gets my blood pumping.
5. Confess, apologize and make it up to me when you break any of my rules or mess up on any of the instructions I’ve given you. Be prepared to pay.

Only five major rules in my world. Help me avoid stress and annoyance by being obedient puppets.

November 19, 2007

Update, Opportunity, Instruction

by @ 12:31 am. Filed under Financial Domination, General Fetish, Phone Sex, Submissives, Tease & Denial, Wanker Alert

I have been very busy lately. I’m moving! Yes, again. lol Some of you have noticed that my amazon wishlist no longer has an address attached to it and that is because of the move. I’m not sure when I’ll have a new mailbox for those lovely presents but (before you start crying) there is an easy solution. Send an amazon gift certificate to my email address, tell me what you’re just dying to buy for me and I’ll buy it and send you a photo. I’ve always used a private mailbox at a UPS store for your gifts so it will be nice to have them delivered to my doorstep instead. I hope the delivery guys at my new location will be cute. There’s nothing better in the afternoon than a hot guy with arms loaded offering to carry packages to any room I like while trying to pretend he’s not looking me up and down. lol Boys are silly.
It’s been almost a month since my birthday but my entire birthday month was incredible! I have such wonderful puppets. I’m definitely going to have to do that again next year.
Oh and speaking of silly boys, petproject has a $600 decision to make by Monday afternoon. What he doesn’t know is that his money will buy one of you lucky freaks an orgasm. No, I won’t be giving you unlimited attention but I will give you permission to cum. I know how badly some of you just need the permission of a dominant woman whether you’re in a session or not. It’s yours for free if he follows through. Keep your fingers crossed and your eyes on the comments to this blog entry. That’s where I’ll update and let you know how you can earn a tiny bit of my attention.
The WankerLand site is really doing well. Already a few losers have found a new Mistress that really tells them how it is. lol If your kink is sexual humiliation, then head over and do what you do best… get an erection, act like an idiot and follow my directions to finally learn where you fit in this crazy world. I really am too nice.

April 22, 2007

Good Submissive Puppets

by @ 1:23 am. Filed under Financial Domination, Foot & Shoe Fetish, General Fetish, Mind Control, Phone Sex, Puppy Play, Submissives, Tease & Denial

Too much of my precious time has been spent on recent posts about the wankers that have crossed my path. I know many of you like to laugh at them along with me, but tonight’s post is all about my good boys.
I’m happy to say that petproject is traveling down the forced intoxication highway at break-neck speed. lol Who needs milk in your cereal when you have Baileys Irish Cream? I “help” him plan alcohol shopping trips and then tell him when, what and how much to drink. There have even been the occasional “drink cam” viewings. When I feel like it, I’ll click over to see his glass to determine if he’s drinking fast enough or not. hahaha You can read a little about it on his blog (link to the left). By the way… he still hasn’t had an orgasm. Two months and counting. A round of applause is in order. It’s gotten to the point where he doesn’t even mention it anymore, so maybe I’ll let him cum this weekend…
A trip to my mailbox on Thursday ended up with some random guy helping me carry the many boxes to my car. Included in this huge stack of gifts were two pairs of SteveMadden shoes (one pictured below) and two boxes of bath stuff off my Amazon wishlist… all from my favorite puppy, buster. He also preordered another pair of shoes that aren’t available until this summer. I HAD to have them! lol Such a wonderful little shoe slave. Too bad my puppy will be away all week. I’m in the mood to play.
There’s been a new addition to my fetish funhouse. Two of my favorite things all rolled into one package: financial domination and masturbation & orgasm control. Yum. I usually slip orgasm control into all of my sessions… because I like it so much, but when they come to me already craving my control over when and if they cum… Ahhh It doesn’t get much better than that. lol
Before this gets too long, I wanted to include recent feedback comments left by my puppets. For those that don’t know how niteflirt works, after any paid interaction with me, my boys are able to leave a “review” for everyone to read.

From busterThePuppy: “Thank you Mistress Abigail for taking your puppy buster and letting him spend the entire day at your feet. Thank you for letting your buster need you, yearn for you, wait for and on you. Thank you Mistress.”

From addictlion: “I was a bad wanker who came without permission. I am now not allowed to touch my cock and I must write an essay about how amazing Mistress Abigail is. She has total control of my cock, my stroking, my orgasms and my money.”

From AbigailsToy: “My Mistress was so kind tonight to let me cum tonight. She didn’t make it easy though. She took me to the edge countless times while she giggled at my frustration…that wonderful frustration…in the end it was worth it. But then again the fun is getting there, no matter the outcome. Being on edge for Mistress Abigail is the ultimate thrill, jus waiting for her insruction. I would do anything for her!!”

I love reading my feedback. lol Now for that photo of my new brown, leather pumps from buster:

Sexy brown leather pumps

April 13, 2007

New Recording! Learn to Suck Cock in Eight Easy Steps!

by @ 7:13 pm. Filed under General Fetish, Phone Sex, Submissives, Wanker Alert

I just had the most fun creating a new recording on niteflirt. It’s amazing how many emails and calls I get from wannabe-sluts that wish they could suck a cock for me. Well, before you go out into the big, bad world of hardons, you’ll want to take this little 14 minute course. Okay, yes, I do laugh at you during the whole thing but who can blame me? hahaha
Have you always dreamed of worshiping the large cock of a real man? This hands-on lesson will start you on your way to becoming a world class cock sucker!
“But Ms. Abigail, won’t that make me gay?” That depends. Practicing on fake cocks only means you wish you were gay. You’re not a full-blown fag until you swallow that first creamy load that you worked so hard for. LOL
“But Ms. Abigail, I probably won’t ever get the chance to suck a real cock.” Ugh. I can imagine you whining already. To work through your issues on that would require one-on-one manipulation (I mean counseling!) (oops! I mean “for entertainment purposes only!”)
Since I know you’re eager to begin your dick slurping journey, just grab something to suck and start the lesson. You get extra points if you already have a realistic dildo with a suction cup and balls attached for some chin slapping action. No points if you’re sucking your finger. How pathetic is that? At least grab a sausage or cucumber. Sheesh. I recommend you listen daily if for no other reason than to keep your jaws limber just in case that day comes where a real cock is in front of you needing a good sucking. Try to do a good job even though I’m laughing at you.
Step #1 Get on your knees… (click to continue)

March 8, 2007

New Boots For Mistress

by @ 3:16 pm. Filed under Financial Domination, Foot & Shoe Fetish, Phone Sex, Puppy Play, Tease & Denial, Wanker Alert

I can’t believe I didn’t write a single entry for all of February. Especially since so much happened. Well, now that I think of it much of what’s happened has been in my private life and really isn’t any of your business. However your perverted private lives are open for me to talk about, aren’t they? lol Let’s see… petproject has been keeping me in Godiva chocolate and my Senseo coffee pods this year. I’ve been keeping him orgasm-free. Just imagine the relief you too could feel when you no longer have to worry about when/if you can cum. Aussie boy has begged (again) for my attention. He likes “mean girls” with a little humiliation and financial domination thrown in. The problem is that he never has any money. It’s so sad when you can’t even afford your own fetish. hahaha My favorite puppy, buster, has resurfaced and I have two new pairs of boots. The photo below is of the newest pair. I actually have three new pairs but I’m sending one back because my puppy took it upon himself to buy bright pink boots for me. The style is great. The color is not. I know buster would love it if I kept the boots because they would definitely turn heads around town. lol Isn’t he the cutest?

There have also been my regular tease and denial callers (set up those appointments boys) and the nervous twitters from my financial domination mainstays (who’s ready for some more wallet pruning?) Besides all of that loveliness, there have been a couple of… oddballs. lol There’s one weirdo that pays for my contact form at least once a week. He never fills it out. Never emails me with questions. Nothing. Just week after week he pays the $5. Maybe he’s another that’s into financial domination but can’t actually afford it? I guess my cheap contact form serves as the fast food value meal of findom. LOL Silly boy, you should at least graduate to the $20 confessional over there on the left.

I’ve saved the best for last. I wrote a little note to Wanker X in the last entry. He’s boring. He never wants to do any of the things he promises. Keep in mind these are things he brought up and wanted to do. He’s pathetic in more ways than I feel like going into here. Wanker X knows he won’t be receiving very much of my attention until he shapes up. So what does he do? He keeps sending $50+ tributes with “i’m so sorry, Mistress” in the subject line and “i’m a wanker” in the body of the email. That’s still pathetic and boring so I haven’t felt the desire to reply. This post should cover the next few dozen sad attempts. lol
Now I think I’ll walk around in just my new boots while eating chocolate. Ciao.

My new Micheal Kors suede boots in garnet

November 22, 2006

Tease And Denial: The Wanker Games

by @ 4:42 pm. Filed under Phone Sex, Tease & Denial

Registration for my Wanker Games was over last Tuesday and the fun began this past Friday. If you missed out, then you need to pay closer attention to every little word I write. Seven males signed up and we’re already down to only five. One admitted that he was a premature ejaculator, so imagine my total lack of surprise when he was disqualified by the next afternoon. hahaha The other drop-out managed to last three whole days. He requested a special assignment beyond my teasing emails so I instructed him to listen to my long tease recording. Poor thing didn’t even make it halfway through.
The winner gets a special prize but I know that free attention from me is the real reward. The ultimate reward will be my permission to cum. Now even more males will realize how much more satisfying an orgasm is when I allow it. It’s all part of my plan for world domination… one controlled orgasm at a time. lol
On another note, I found a new search engine for you perverts: MsDewey.com. She’s hot and I love her attitude. I typed in queries like “bondage” and “phone sex” because I’m a bit of a pervert myself. If you wait long enough with out doing a search, she gets impatient. lol Eventually search results will show on the right side and they’ll scroll for you when you hold your cursor towards the bottom of the results. Enjoy.

September 9, 2006

Puppet Name Changes

by @ 7:02 am. Filed under Phone Sex, Puppy Play, Submissives, Tease & Denial

There have been a couple of name changes this week. In honor of my one year anniversary as puppy Tim’s owner, I have decided to give him his puppy name. I’d gotten so used to just calling him “puppy”, with genuine affection, that I never considered it a default name. That name certainly worked. He came when called and has always been eager to please. Then I started thinking… puppies are playful, energetic and loyal. They tend to strut around when they know they’ve been good, looking very pleased with themselves. Sometimes they misbehave. That is expected. Punishment is delivered and life goes on in puppy’s world. Above all, they have personality. Tim isn’t a dishrag. He has opinions that I appreciate. He’s humorous, productive, intelligent and adores his owner. Last night he learned the new name I’ve chosen for him. From this point on he will be known as Buster. I think it’s a great name. Unfortunately for him, puppies have no say in what their owners name them. lol It will take some getting used to on both our parts, but I’m sure he’ll soon come running as soon as he hears it just like the good boy he is.
The other name change is from a tease and denial puppet. He recently took it upon himself to change his NF username to “Abigail’s Toy”. Isn’t that cute? I think our last call had a lot to do with that. He usually calls once, maybe twice a week and I get him all worked up by controlling his masturbation. Sometimes I let him cum and sometimes I don’t. He never knows and that’s the way I like it. lol Before our last call I’d instructed him to buy some type of vibrator. Obedience is rewarded. The next time we talked, I drove him crazy by having him alternate strokes with vibrations against his cock. It wasn’t long before I heard music to my ears: begging. Since I enjoy those pleading moans so much I did drag it out for a while. I let him cum that night and from what I heard, it was fantastic. Maybe an hour later I received an email informing me of the name change. Another devoted puppet.
My Aussie boy expressed interest in changing his name to something more fitting a servant of mine. I’ve told him to hold off on that. We only started playing two-three weeks ago. I understand the desire to show the world that I’ve claimed my property but I think it’s still a bit premature. I’ve learned a lot about him in that time and tonight learned even more (can anyone say “loves cock”? lol) but I need to do some digging. I’m sure there are a few more kinks for me to uncover. He’s scared to death that people will find out what a pervert he really is so I won’t say a thing about how much he loves cock. *evil grin*
Unrelated news: As you can see, there’s been a delay with the financial domination section. Buster came up with some really great ideas and it’s going to take some time to see if I can implement them. The Wanker Game will have to wait until after my move. Between packing, moving, unpacking, cleaning and painting my spare time is nonexistent. Look for more news on that sometimes around the beginning of October. A few of you have expressed interest in buying gifts for my new house. By all means, go right ahead. lol I’ve created a “housewarming” wishlist on Amazon (linked from my main wishlist) and supercertificates from giftcertifcates.com are always welcome. I can use those to shop locally for painting/decorating supplies and nifty new things to fill the house.

August 9, 2006

Puppy Tim and the Quest for Shoes

by @ 2:36 am. Filed under Foot & Shoe Fetish, Phone Sex, Puppy Play, Submissives, Tease & Denial

Puppy Tim has been my play puppy, my pay puppy and my whining, begging, denied puppy. Now he is also my shoe puppy. Every week he is now tasked with the job of finding his owner new shoes. He’s been buying shoes for me off and on for months now, but we’re starting a structured shoe-hunt. My little pet must search online for high heels that he hopes I will like and submit his findings weekly. If he’s done his job properly, I allow him to buy a pair. Little puppies get so excited when you tell them they’re good boys. lol While I wait for the delivery, I tease and deny him until he’s so worked up that he’s begging and yipping. Poor guy isn’t given permission to cum until I have the heels in my possession and like them as much on my feet as I did online. In round two, puppy found the most perfect shoe ever after I told him to look for anything in blue. I loved them so much that he was then allowed to buy the same style in red and black. Perhaps I’ll let him buy the entire line for me in every color.
At the moment, Tim is out of town and I miss my pet. When he gets back, he has an extra task of buying a new leather leash. If you’d like to see the recent purchases he’s made, head to my ‘tributes and gifts’ page and visit the Amazon wishlist link. You’ll see the items I currently want but if you click on the ‘puchased’ drop down link you’ll see my newest shoes. He’s paid for every pair there except for the black sandals. Panty-boy kelli bought those as a parting gift because our session became a bit too intense for him. lol Here’s a picture of the black pumps on my lovely feet.

Abigail's black pumps

July 21, 2006

The Tease and Denial Games We Play

by @ 5:31 pm. Filed under Phone Sex, Tease & Denial

Over the years I’ve talked to many tease and denial enthusiasts and I’ve found that t&d is one of the few scenarios that works well with game playing. I mean game playing as in traditional dice, cards or board games. Just about any game can be adapted to a tease and denial session. It can be as simple as the winner decides if the submissive is allowed to cum or not. It can be as complicated as multiple “turns”, tasks, days etc. I know of one person that is even selling a game he created. If I remember correctly, it involves marbles of two different colors and a list of rules. If I find the link again (or if someone sends it to me) I’ll post it here.
My favorite games involve counting. Anyone that’s had a t&d session with me knows all about that. Sometimes I’ll count, fast or slow, and you have to stroke along with me. Other times I’ll tell you to stroke FAST while I count to a certain number. In those cases, I don’t always count at a regular rhythm. lol Often the best game ideas come from you. The males that sincerely enjoy being teased mercilessly are often the most creative when it comes to their own denial. They usually end up regretting what they’ve come up with. hahaha One subbie told me about a pyramid game (my name for it since I can’t remember if there’s another name) that he’d read about. I pick a number and you alternate waiting and stroking while I count. For example, I pick the number 20. I start counting: 1 (you stroke once) 2-20 (you wait). 1,2 (you stroke twice) 3-20 (you wait). It sounds fine now, but wait until I’m counting 1-17 (you stroke 17 times) and only wait for the remaining 3 before you’re stroking 18 times and so on. The grunts and moans as you try not to cum before I allow you are music to my ears.
Besides counting, when I’m very much in control, I also enjoy games with random outcomes. I love to tell you how I’m on your side and hope you get to cum when it’s all up to the roll of the dice. Using multiple die can determine how fast you stroke, how many strokes you get, how long you have to wait between strokes and the end result. From just these examples, you get an idea of where this can go. The options are unlimited. For any of you interested in trying this on your own, remember that the games work best when you’re already extremely turned on before beginning. If you’re excited at the thought of me controlling the game (and your cock) then send a message and we’ll set up a call on NiteFlirt.
If anyone knows of other tease and denial games, share them with me. I may post them here or I may just keep them to myself. lol

June 17, 2006

Pets, Dirty Confessions and Blogs

by @ 11:30 pm. Filed under Financial Domination, Foot & Shoe Fetish, General Fetish, Phone Sex, Puppy Play, Submissives

puppyTim had been absent for a while. Me, being incredibly patient, understood that things come up and we can’t all play non-stop. But even my patience can wear thin so I sent him an expensive pay-to-view email demanding his attention. I’d missed my favorite puppy’s adoration. Yes, he’d purchased the Chanel sunglasses from my Amazon wishlist a few weeks ago as a little forget-me-not but that wasn’t nearly enough. Last night puppyTim messaged me on Yahoo after paying for the email. His apologies were accepted (I’m also very forgiving) and he was once again his cute little puppy self… following me around and licking my toes during a very lovely call. Welcome back, pet and happy birthday.
Some of you have really latched on to the idea of a weekly confessional. I’ll be adding the button for that over on the left when I get a chance. I’ve read some nasty emails. Have you people no shame?! Perverts are so fun. LOL One male attached a picture of his tiny penis to his confession. At least I think that’s what it was… I’ve never seen anything quite like it. He’s probably hoping I’ll add it to my blog, but do I really want to scare my readers away? Perhaps I’ll create a small penis humiliation page and post all of the little dick photos that come my way. Don’t worry, I’ll give everyone advance warning so you don’t spit out your coffee when you click the link.
I’m toying with the idea of allowing a few of my puppets to blog on my website. Pet Project has kept an online diary for me for almost two years, so I know he’ll update regularly. Anyone else that’s interested will have to prove they’re worth my effort before I add more blogs. I have to upload the software and customize the look, so it takes a fair bit of my time. Hopefully, I’ll have PP’s blog up and running within the next couple of weeks.
For those that are interested, I’ve added a few new things to my Amazon wishlist. You can see it by heading to my “tributes and gifts” page. Once you’re there, you’ll know what to do. lol

May 22, 2006

Distance Domination Via Email

by @ 6:10 pm. Filed under Financial Domination, General Fetish, Mind Control, Phone Sex, Submissives, Tease & Denial

I was surprised when I first realized how many males prefer their distance domination to happen through emails. I have to admit I get a kick out of knowing your sitting at your computer constantly refreshing the screen hoping to see a new email from me. Then you happily pay to read it. Is there anything as wonderful as NiteFlirt’s pay-to-view mail system? I think not. LOL After doing a little digging, I’ve found out what the attraction is to email-only contact. First there is the antici…pation of a new message. Then you have all of these wonderfully evil emails in your inbox that you can read over and over at your leisure. Lastly, you can indulge in the naughty stuff while at work (or in other less than private places).
I can send tasks, shopping lists, photos, erection inducing paragraphs or even reprimands. You never know what you’ll find until you pay to read. By the way, I really love it when I’ve gotten you all excited just before you’re headed off to a work meeting. Do you grab some papers to hold in front of you as you walk? Do you pray that woody will go down FAST? Do you just saunter right in hoping one of the ladies will notice and giggle? hahaha
I can tease you mercilessly with my exceptional creativity and typing skills. It’s so heart-warming to read your pleading emails. You can be rather creative too when you’re begging for an orgasm. Oh yes, tell me how you can’t stand any more of this torture and then I’ll prove you wrong by making you wait another day (or week). I’ve helped a few chronic masturbators on their way to wanking recovery. As I’ve said before, that release just isn’t as satisfying without my permission.
Then there are the males wanting me to financially dominate them. Our inboxes fill up pretty quickly when I’m toying with you, don’t they? That first reply from me may be pretty cheap. Each successive reply gradually gets more and more expensive. You can’t help it. You have to see what’s inside waiting for you. Maybe you’ll regret the hundreds of dollars you spent on me the next day, but I had my fun. Besides, you’ll be back. You can’t help it.
If you desire general domination, tease and denial or even emails dealing with your specific fetish then start by answering these getting-to-know-you questions in this $5 email:

If you have that trembling feeling in the pit of your stomach after reading about financial domination then you can start by either clicking that $5 email button AND sending a tribute or listening to this recording and emailing me about how you’re now under my spell:


3 Minute recording for $30

May 17, 2006

Dreams of Sucking Cock

by @ 4:04 pm. Filed under Financial Domination, General Fetish, Mind Control, Phone Sex, Submissives

I have a few puppets that enjoy the fantasy of sucking a real cock. A couple of them suck on their favorite dildos for me. Practice makes perfect. Remember Abigail’s pet project? I’m slowly working him up for a real blowjob session. He’s even gotten a membership at a local bath house, but hasn’t gotten the nerve up to visit it yet. This puppet has a genuine enthusiasm for nasty throat fucking. I’d heard him slurping and gagging on his 10″ dildo many times before, but I’d never seen it until he asked if he could turn on his cam the other day. Wow! This freak would put any $10 street hooker to shame. I’m sure he’d be a hit at the bath house. Click the screen shot for the full video.

Along with permission to put this video on my blog (yes, I do request permission), pet project also sent a lovely tribute and $1k gift certificate from www.giftcertificates.com. I think I’ll add that option to my “tributes and gifts” page. Actually, he didn’t have a choice about handing over his money. Silly pet. That’s what you get for telling me you had more available credit. You know I’ll end up taking it all. Again.

April 14, 2006

Making Panty Boys Jealous

by @ 9:27 pm. Filed under General Fetish, Pantyhose & Stockings, Phone Sex, Submissives

I teased a panty-loving sub by telling him how I’d just rearranged my lingerie drawers. He begged for a picture, and being the benevolent goddess that I am, here’s a photo of one drawer. A friend said it would be fun if I labeled what’s what so here’s a quick description:
On the left is a stack of pantyhose and stockings. Behind them are some tights (regular and fishnet). The two middle rows are bra and panty sets. Behind those two rows are boy shorts and garter belts. On the right is a row of about 30 pairs of panties and thongs.
Abigail's lingerie drawer
I imagine there are some very girly males out there that think they can top this drawer of mine. Send a picture of your sexy underthings (not your wife’s or girlfriend’s!) and if your drawer looks better than mine, I’ll post it here. If some sissy does manage to outshine me, my puppets better prepare themselves because I will insist that one of them buys more panties for me.

March 29, 2006

Financial Domination: Abigail Style

by @ 5:42 pm. Filed under Financial Domination, Foot & Shoe Fetish, Mind Control, Phone Sex, Submissives

I’ve received quite a few emails asking about financial domination. What exactly is financial domination? What is the appeal to the submissive guy? Why, oh why would they give so much money to someone they’ve never met in person? I’m hardly an expert on the subject, but I’ll share my conclusions (which I’m constantly revising and updating).
So far I’ve dealt with three different types of submissives that have been interested in submitting to me financially: humiliation junkies, princess spoilers and “oh-my-god-I shouldn’t-do-this-but-I-can’t-help-myself” financial ruin freaks. For the vast majority this is only one of the ways they want to serve. Sending me tributes and gifts is not their only fetish. If they have a foot fetish or shoe fetish, are excited by cuckold roleplay, tease and denial, humiliation or mind control then financial domination adds an extra edge to our play. It’s a thrill. It’s a type of edge play they can experience long distance.
Humiliation Junkies know they aren’t worthy of my attention so they pay for it. These boys often come and go as their hardons dictate. The more I humiliate them by picking on their particular short coming(s), the more excited they get until they finally explode in a horrified, blushing ecstasy. Paying for the privilege of my attention just adds to the embarrassment.
Princess Spoilers obviously want someone to spoil. They love to send gifts in the hopes of making me happy. Some like to pay bills (rent, car payment etc) and some like to support a type of lifestyle (manicures, spa visits, jewelry, shopping trips etc). They feel all warm and cozy when they make me smile. Princess spoilers have a special place in my heart when they work to anticipate my needs and desires.
Financial Ruination Freaks gravitate towards extreme fetishes, fantasies and roleplays. They crave that feeling of helplessness when I control their behaviour. They sometimes fantasize about working an extra job, cutting their own spending down to the bare essentials or selling their house and living in a cheap apartment just to send me more money. They run up their credit cards and apply for more (with my encouragement). Even though I’m laughing at their impending doom, humiliation isn’t the main factor in their excitement. It’s more of an expected by-product. After all, who wouldn’t laugh at some spineless worm that can’t control his own purse strings? I really enjoy hearing how they have to eat ramen noodles every day while I’m taking my girlfriends out to eat.
This email I received sums up the thoughts of those toying with the idea of financial domination:

Dear Miss Abigail, i love Your website and i’ve read every single page. i’ve paid special attention to Your writings on financial domination and i don’t know why but thinking about You controlling my money drives me crazy. i know it makes no sense and i try not to give in but what You write touches some part of me and it both scares and excites me. i try to stay away but every day i come back hoping theres another picture of Your beautiful feet or more written thoughts from Your cunning mind. Sending You this email probably isn’t a good idea and part of me hopes You won’t write back. (another part of me will be checking every hour hoping that You do) If You check Your niteflirt account You will see a $300 gift from (member name withheld). Even if we never speak i wanted to thank You for the kindness and thoughfulness i sense in Your writings. i’ve read many websites of other financial Dommes but something about You seems true and honest. Submitting my mind and wallet to You is what i dream about. Faithfully Yours, (name withheld)

Those of you that just send a silly message saying “please take my money” should take notes from him. You’ve probably figured that out since I don’t respond to such lame attempts for my attention. A respectful email and a thoughtful gift will get you much further… even if you don’t necessarily want to go there. lol
Again, these are my experiences in the financial domination arena. Just like any fetish or fantasy, there are as many variations on the theme as there are participants. I’d love to hear your views on the subject. Either leave a comment here or send an email. Here’s a photo of my “beautiful feet” in pantyhose just for you, email boy. Enjoy.
My beautiful feet in Wolford pantyhose

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