I’m thrilled to join the ranks of Elite Fetish Award recipients. Now I get to choose a few of my favorite sites for nomination.

ELITE FETISH AWARD

Recognition for those sites and individuals who perform
outstanding support within the BDSM/Fetish Community
and for their continued efforts in keeping the
Kink in Kinky!!

Awarded to

Abigail of SeductiveDomination.com
by Lady Sascha

I figure that no updates from me in a few months deserves another issue of my Femdom News. Why? Because this is an easy way for me to throw together some random stuff. lol
1. I’ve really settled into a more country lifestyle after my move last Fall. The view of the pond from my back deck is amazing! There are trees, flowers and bushes everywhere and an orchard next door. The only drawback is I have to drive further to go shopping. lol So now I plan my trips to the “big city” and do more online shopping. So keep those email gift certificates coming. hehehe
2. Many of you knew that I was still around despite the lack of recent blog entries but it does look like I’ve lost a couple of puppets. That means I have time for new boys! If you’ve been curious about how we would click and how I would seductively dominate you, then visit my contact page and let’s get started. Don’t worry that I’ll demand a commitment right away. I expect you to decide if feel you can serve me just as I’ll decide if you’re worth my time and energy. lol Do NOT make the mistake of throwing around the term ‘financial domination’ if that’s not your thing. I’m not in this just for money so I won’t be chomping at the bit thinking I’m going to make a killing off of you. Be honest and don’t act like mr. moneybags if you aren’t. I have puppets from all income levels. It’s your devotion that matters most.
3. Having said that, if financial domination IS your thing be prepared for me to start financially draining you before you realize what’s happening. And if I mention anything about your retirement plan or daily tributes to prove that you’re always thinking about me… just relax and let things take their course. hahaha
4. Sometimes your (and my) fetishes, fantasies or fears change. If your thoughts start moving in another direction from where we started then speak up. For example, anyone that has read petproject’s blog has an idea of what he’s been into: tease and denial, porn and stroking addiction, forced intoxication etc. Lately there’s been a hint of humiliation in our sessions. Thoughts of approaching a sexy young lady (18-20 yrs old or so) and asking her out… only to be turned down and laughed at for being a “dirty old man” have started to make him squirm. Erotic humiliation used to be something I had no interest in. Something changed and now I get a thrill out of making grown men blush, stammer and even cry. So I created WankerLand.com and found like-minded women to terrorize sexual humiliation junkies.
5. Speaking of WankerLand.com, you may not know that we also have recordings for your listening… pleasure. lol They all deal with humiliation but to varying degrees so take a look and you may be surprised to see a few things that interest you (even if you think the whole humiliation thing is crazy).
6. And finally: Always remember to vote for me because it makes me smile (daily is good lol) and if you’re one of my lost puppets and you need to find your way back, start by sending a tribute and a polite message.

As many of you already know, I love to laugh and joke around. I don’t stress easily and my goal is not to stress you out. Our experience is supposed to be enjoyable (even if it hurts a little lol). I don’t tolerate drama and I don’t care what other Dommes are doing. What I am is strict. If I tell you to do something, I expect you to do it. No, I won’t ban you if you fail but I won’t give you many chances if you keep failing. I will let you know how I expect you to make up your mistakes and it wouldn’t be wise to ignore that.
I have a short list of rules and guidelines and they ONLY apply to my faithful puppets. If you’re only around for occasional tease and denial, wallet drainings or other fetish and femdom fantasies then you’ll have different guidelines tailored to our sessions. Those of you begging to serve as one of my puppets, pay attention.
1. Do not ignore my emails. Even if I’m only writing to say, “have a nice day”, I expect a response.
2. Except in the case of real emergencies, do not just disappear. I’ve taken the time to plan out emails, phone or chat sessions, assignments etc. If you’ve reached your financial, time or other limit a polite message letting me know is required. Failing to contact me will result in a stiff fine when you try to return.
3. Always be respectful and follow directions.
4. Always assume that you’ll have to give up control of your orgasms during a session. Seriously. If you’ve read all of my blog entries (as my puppets definitely need to do) then you know that denying you and making you beg is one thing that really gets my blood pumping.
5. Confess, apologize and make it up to me when you break any of my rules or mess up on any of the instructions I’ve given you. Be prepared to pay.

Only five major rules in my world. Help me avoid stress and annoyance by being obedient puppets.

In answer to those of you wondering if this site is still active… yes, it is. I’ve been busy with this and that so I haven’t been posting on this blog lately. I HAVE been toying with my desperate little puppets all along of course. lol So even if you don’t see anything new on my femdom blog, you can always play my envelope game, listen to my (cocksucking, tease and denial or financial domination) recordings, contact me for email or phone sessions and tribute/spoil me with cash through niteflirt or e-gift certificates. Go over every inch of this website because I have tons of stuff to lure you into my web. hahaha
I’m off to run some errands but look for a brand new blog entry this weekend.

I have been very busy lately. I’m moving! Yes, again. lol Some of you have noticed that my amazon wishlist no longer has an address attached to it and that is because of the move. I’m not sure when I’ll have a new mailbox for those lovely presents but (before you start crying) there is an easy solution. Send an amazon gift certificate to my email address, tell me what you’re just dying to buy for me and I’ll buy it and send you a photo. I’ve always used a private mailbox at a UPS store for your gifts so it will be nice to have them delivered to my doorstep instead. I hope the delivery guys at my new location will be cute. There’s nothing better in the afternoon than a hot guy with arms loaded offering to carry packages to any room I like while trying to pretend he’s not looking me up and down. lol Boys are silly.
It’s been almost a month since my birthday but my entire birthday month was incredible! I have such wonderful puppets. I’m definitely going to have to do that again next year.
Oh and speaking of silly boys, petproject has a $600 decision to make by Monday afternoon. What he doesn’t know is that his money will buy one of you lucky freaks an orgasm. No, I won’t be giving you unlimited attention but I will give you permission to cum. I know how badly some of you just need the permission of a dominant woman whether you’re in a session or not. It’s yours for free if he follows through. Keep your fingers crossed and your eyes on the comments to this blog entry. That’s where I’ll update and let you know how you can earn a tiny bit of my attention.
The WankerLand site is really doing well. Already a few losers have found a new Mistress that really tells them how it is. lol If your kink is sexual humiliation, then head over and do what you do best… get an erection, act like an idiot and follow my directions to finally learn where you fit in this crazy world. I really am too nice.

These posts should really be called something like “Abigail’s Ramblings” instead of Femdom News. Oh well. I’ll try to add at least one news worthy item. Maybe. lol
1. In case you didn’t see it in the earlier post, I have a new site for erotic humiliation. WankerLand.com Go check it out. If the domination I provide isn’t quite what twists your panties, you’ll be able to find the perfect woman there. Read their information carefully. Don’t say I didn’t warn you if you find a Domme that humiliates you so effectively that you’re crying for days. hahaha
2.For those of you that get off on just browsing websites about dominant females, financial domination, tease and denial etc, I’ve made it easier for you. I know your brain isn’t working so well when your turned on so here’s a page with all of my blog photos. Yes, all in one place. Some of you are only capable of looking at pictures anyway. For future reference you can also find that link over on the left.
3.Many of you have noticed that my yahoo ID (abigail_light_and_dark) is readily available. I don’t mind chatting with the unwashed masses as long as you don’t ask questions that I’ve already answered on this website. Not only is that disrespectful, it’s so annoying. And don’t think I’m going to chat with you all night long without any sort of tribute or gift. Believe it or not, your penis and your freaky fantasies don’t always make for scintillating conversation.
4.I have received so many comments lately about petprojects blog. It seems you’re evenly divided between feeling bad for him (because I’m so mean) or being jealous of him because of our intense sessions. Both of those opinions please me. lol Remember that The Fool’s blog is still gathering dust and is open for one of you humiliation dummies to take over. Contact me for more information.
5.A few more of you have gone crazy with my Random Envelope Game. Seeing how much fun one boy had with it today reminds me that it’s time to switch it up again. I’ll be working on that this weekend and you’ll see the new switch date on that page when I’m finished.
6.Except for a minor slip-up this weekend, my new shopping puppet is doing well. I picked up the first batch of gifts from my mailbox today (including the new charm bracelet from buster). Between today’s packages, the monthly coffee pods petproject sends and the Starbucks card that buster refills every month, I think I’m mostly set for caffeine. lol I don’t often post photos of everything I receive… maybe I should change that since there seems to be interest in that… but here’s a picture of today’s haul. I’m expecting a few more boxes next week including three more pairs of shoes (do punked out wellingtons count? lol) from my shoe pet, buster. Now I’m off to add this picture to my blog photo page. Cheers.

The Labor Day holiday weekend was a good one. I played with my puppy buster… denying him one night and then allowing his “release” after he’d fulfilled an obligation. At the start of the weekend I had received three new pairs of shoes from him so he was also rewarded with new shoe photos. I’ve started buster on my new charm bracelet. It is his job to fill it with cute trinkets so if you see the Amazon wishlist I set up for charms, they are his to buy. Everyone else can realize their Abigail-spoiling dreams on my regular wishlist.
Speaking of my wishlist, I have a promising new puppet whose job is to clean my list. Shopping puppet is only allowed to buy items I’ve added in previous months. So he gets to pick up the tab on everything you slackers miss. Since my birthday is next month, hopefully there won’t be much left for him to purchase so maybe I’ll just take his money instead… or add more to the wishlist. lol
Now on to the subject I teased you about in the title: petproject has a fascination with sleep deprivation so I took full advantage of the long weekend. We started last Thursday with lots of attention and teasing on my part and lots of lube, edging and money on his part. There wasn’t any forced intoxication because I wanted him awake as long as possible. At first “as long as possible” was the goal. As the weekend progressed I had petproject pouring on the lube (literally… and it was a mess) to stroke, sucking one fake cock and, for the first time ever, taking his HUGE black dildo in his ass. All on cam. All great fun! Around Sunday we started talking about how many hours he’d been awake and the number was high. Even while I slept he was typing regularly in yahoo chat so I could make sure he didn’t fall asleep. As I watched his mind deteriorate and his fantasies become darker, I decided the new goal would be a full 100 hours of no sleep. That meant he had to stay awake until Monday morning. I wake up Monday afternoon and he’s still up (with more ass play all on his own). The poor thing went past the point where he was too tired to actually sleep. Later that evening, he’s still awake so I started him on the alcohol. At midnight I tell him to get the big, black dildo out again… and that’s when he passed out. LOL The next day I took pity on him and pushed him towards his only orgasm in almost a week. Without it he wouldn’t have been able to function at all. So much fun. hahaha
In addition to all of that, a few new hopefuls came around. I see more tease and denial, panty fetish and strap on training in their futures. Yes, a very good holiday weekend.

I understand that some of you weren’t able to party properly on the 4th of July. That’s a shame. Personally, I had a blast. lol My evening started out great when I had petproject do some shopping for me, set him up with some drinking instructions and then left him all on his own while I went out with my friends. I think we should stretch the Independence Day festivities through the weekend. Contact me for your very own drinking instructions. I want to get you drunk and pliable. Think of me smiling when you wake up in the morning regretting everything you told me and gave me the night before. LOL

I just updated my contact page (click here to read). In the past I’d always charged a $100 fee for my Yahoo chat ID. Now I’m posting the ID and I will answer your basic questions. Anything beyond that will still require the fee. Go read the page for all the details. The main reason I decided to do this is because a few of you have found me in various chat rooms anyway. Remain respectful and I’ll answer any BASIC questions before we move on to the real fun.
The envelope game has been going very well. For the most part, puppets have followed the directions but I have to laugh the few times someone has gotten the ‘Stop Now’ envelope and… kept going. hahaha Hey, I’ll take your money any day but you really are missing the entire point of the game.
Buster the shoe puppy has done a wonderful job of filling my high heel shoe rack. There’s only one open spot left and then I’ll need a new rack. lol Want to see all of the high heels I’ve received? Click here. Here’s a photo of one of my newest pairs:

I’ve recently updated my Amazon wishlist. So it’s time for you to go shopping. Then you can vote for my wonderful website.
Special note: Check your niteflirt mail. Some of you received a pay-to-view message from me. Inside are photos of me you’ve never seen before (and probably never will again). That special privilege dictates the high price.

The weather is warmer, the women are wearing less and you guys are thrilled. lol I can’t wait to start teasing the silly men around here. Foot fetish boys are seeing more and more toes, soles, heels and arches. Shoes fetish boys will have a nicely frustrating summer full of sandals, wedges and peep-toe heels. I’m currently smitten with wedges and my shoe slave, buster, is more than happy to satisfy my pretty-shoe urges. Nothing could be more summery than my new steve madden shoes. Wouldn’t you agree? lol

On a different note, I want to mention a couple of things. First is Angela St. Lawrence’s post about Romantic Humiliation. He doesn’t mention it much in his blog, but petproject can certainly identify with much of what she wrote. lol That brand of humiliation may seem the meanest, but I have to say I get the most enjoyment out of it.
Secondly, I want to remind some of you to check your niteflirt/keen mail for the “The Lost Puppet Amnesty Program” message I sent out today. If I haven’t heard from you in a while, you should have the email. Yes, I do have my kind moments. Take advantage of them while you can.

Too much of my precious time has been spent on recent posts about the wankers that have crossed my path. I know many of you like to laugh at them along with me, but tonight’s post is all about my good boys.
I’m happy to say that petproject is traveling down the forced intoxication highway at break-neck speed. lol Who needs milk in your cereal when you have Baileys Irish Cream? I “help” him plan alcohol shopping trips and then tell him when, what and how much to drink. There have even been the occasional “drink cam” viewings. When I feel like it, I’ll click over to see his glass to determine if he’s drinking fast enough or not. hahaha You can read a little about it on his blog (link to the left). By the way… he still hasn’t had an orgasm. Two months and counting. A round of applause is in order. It’s gotten to the point where he doesn’t even mention it anymore, so maybe I’ll let him cum this weekend…
A trip to my mailbox on Thursday ended up with some random guy helping me carry the many boxes to my car. Included in this huge stack of gifts were two pairs of SteveMadden shoes (one pictured below) and two boxes of bath stuff off my Amazon wishlist… all from my favorite puppy, buster. He also preordered another pair of shoes that aren’t available until this summer. I HAD to have them! lol Such a wonderful little shoe slave. Too bad my puppy will be away all week. I’m in the mood to play.
There’s been a new addition to my fetish funhouse. Two of my favorite things all rolled into one package: financial domination and masturbation & orgasm control. Yum. I usually slip orgasm control into all of my sessions… because I like it so much, but when they come to me already craving my control over when and if they cum… Ahhh It doesn’t get much better than that. lol
Before this gets too long, I wanted to include recent feedback comments left by my puppets. For those that don’t know how niteflirt works, after any paid interaction with me, my boys are able to leave a “review” for everyone to read.

From busterThePuppy: “Thank you Mistress Abigail for taking your puppy buster and letting him spend the entire day at your feet. Thank you for letting your buster need you, yearn for you, wait for and on you. Thank you Mistress.”

From addictlion: “I was a bad wanker who came without permission. I am now not allowed to touch my cock and I must write an essay about how amazing Mistress Abigail is. She has total control of my cock, my stroking, my orgasms and my money.”

From AbigailsToy: “My Mistress was so kind tonight to let me cum tonight. She didn’t make it easy though. She took me to the edge countless times while she giggled at my frustration…that wonderful frustration…in the end it was worth it. But then again the fun is getting there, no matter the outcome. Being on edge for Mistress Abigail is the ultimate thrill, jus waiting for her insruction. I would do anything for her!!”

I love reading my feedback. lol Now for that photo of my new brown, leather pumps from buster:

I just had the most fun creating a new recording on niteflirt. It’s amazing how many emails and calls I get from wannabe-sluts that wish they could suck a cock for me. Well, before you go out into the big, bad world of hardons, you’ll want to take this little 14 minute course. Okay, yes, I do laugh at you during the whole thing but who can blame me? hahaha
Have you always dreamed of worshiping the large cock of a real man? This hands-on lesson will start you on your way to becoming a world class cock sucker!
“But Ms. Abigail, won’t that make me gay?” That depends. Practicing on fake cocks only means you wish you were gay. You’re not a full-blown fag until you swallow that first creamy load that you worked so hard for. LOL
“But Ms. Abigail, I probably won’t ever get the chance to suck a real cock.” Ugh. I can imagine you whining already. To work through your issues on that would require one-on-one manipulation (I mean counseling!) (oops! I mean “for entertainment purposes only!”)
Since I know you’re eager to begin your dick slurping journey, just grab something to suck and start the lesson. You get extra points if you already have a realistic dildo with a suction cup and balls attached for some chin slapping action. No points if you’re sucking your finger. How pathetic is that? At least grab a sausage or cucumber. Sheesh. I recommend you listen daily if for no other reason than to keep your jaws limber just in case that day comes where a real cock is in front of you needing a good sucking. Try to do a good job even though I’m laughing at you.
Step #1 Get on your knees… (click to continue)

It’s time for another issue of the Femdom News. I love how official that sounds. lol So much has happened since issue #1. For one thing, aussie boy turned out to be a wanker. Yes, he sent lots of money my way and that does get my panties wet, but money does not excuse bad behaviour. Here’s a tip for anyone else that thinks about serving me: don’t claim to want me to control your orgasms simply because it’s one of my main turn-ons. If you repeatedly lie about not cumming, I’m going to lose interest in a flash. Now on to the news.
1. My move to the new house went off without a hitch. There are still a few non-essentials to unpack and one or two rooms to paint, but other than that I’m home. Thanks to buster the puppy, I have a new shoe rack in my closet to hold all of the lovely heels he’s purchased for me. Along with a few smaller gifts from others, one person (that wants to remain anonymous) sent a large supercertificate from giftcertificates.com to pay for painting supplies etc. The interesting thing is that he’s not even one of my puppets. I’ve received quite a few drive-by tributes, but this was definitely the largest.
2. Some of you may have noticed that ‘the fool’ blog hasn’t been updated in a while. I’ve deactivated his password because he is a complete moron. lol Without going into details, he messed up and won’t get the blog back until he makes amends. If another small penis humiliation (or general erotic humiliation) fetishist would like to take over the blog, send an email either to my email address or my niteflirt account. Introduce yourself and tell me why you’d like me to hand the blog over to you. My fool knows what he needs to do and now he knows that he’d better hurry.
3. I’m working on the financial domination section that I’d mentioned before. It’s taking longer than I thought it would. This is what happens when you have a perfectionist for a Mistress. I’ve been asked why I’m bothering to create a separate section for financial domination. There are two main reasons: 1. Those that need to be financially dominated and/or want to spoil and pamper me, are usually the ones that take up most of my time. When there’s that much focus on money and gifts in my day-to-day life, it’s easy to let this website slip into a findom focus. Since I also enjoy tease and denial, foot and shoe fetish, puppy play, cuckolding, cbt etc I want to make sure the main parts of my website include those topics regularly. 2. Financially dominated puppets will pay to join a members area and my goal is to take their money any way I can. lol I will continue to write about financial domination here, but I want to make sure all of my interests are represented equally.
4. The tease & denial Wanker Games are finally here! Registration starts now and ends next Tuesday, November 14 at midnight. My current puppets are not eligible. Pout if you like but I have my reasons. If you’d like more information, read the Femdom News Issue 1 blog entry. Remember that you have to have an active Niteflirt account. You can sign up by clicking here or go ahead and listen to my teasing recording for a taste of my sensual brand of t&d. Register by sending mail to my NF acct. Make sure to tell me that you’re writing to sign up for The Wanker Games. Include as much information about yourself that you’d like. Feel free to ask questions as well. The more I know, the better I can tease you. hahaha This is a free, week-long, email tease session. You will receive more information in my first email response.
5. Make sure you vote today.

Well, I’m not relaxing just yet. I have finally moved into the new house but there are still many things to take care of. Thankfully these will be the fun things like decorating and painting. A few puppets took it upon themselves to fund parts of my moving expenses. One was so thrilled with his little reward that he’s chomping at the bit to help pay for the decorating and painting. Notice I said “help pay”. That means help you, not me. lol
Panty boy kelli has again decided to disappear. This time he says his wife found out about his online porn habit so he’ll have to lay low for a while. Hmmm… Whether I believe him or not, I do know that he’ll eventually come running back wearing his silky and slutty panties. Before he faded away, he had promised to buy the VS babydoll halter I’d mentioned in a previous post. That fell through so petproject stepped up to the plate. I received it today and decided to share it with you all. I’m sure you’re looking at the pretty beadwork and not at my breasts. Right? lol

A couple of people have asked about the dice game I played with panty-kelli. There was a fabulous finale yesterday so I’ll write about it here for everyone to read. First I want to say that kelli and I only communicate via email on NiteFlirt. As of yet, we haven’t spoken by phone and he has not purchased my chat ID. kelli is a compulsive masturbator. When he first contacted me, I heard about how he’d get off almost every day and loved the way it felt to cum all over his hand and belly. That certainly had to change. lol After a few sessions of tease and denial (with some panty wearing and dildo riding thrown in) kelli excused himself and took some time off. By the way, that is the correct way to take a break from our sessions. Going MIA with no excuse or apology is rude and I do NOT appreciate rudeness. As you’ve read in previous entries, kelli kept an eye on my blog and felt jealous of the attention some of my puppets have received here. Isn’t that cute? lol To ease him back under my control, we played a game…
At the time there were eight books on my Amazon wishlist. kelli was instructed to purchase each one for a chance to orgasm. I had three dice (die?) and for each roll he chose a number between 1-18. If his number came up, there was the possibility of eight orgasms. Personally I was hoping he’d lose all eight rolls, but we won’t tell him that. Imagine my surprise when he won the very first roll. Damn beginner’s luck! kelli had to pay for the results in a pay-to-view email. In fact he had to pay for all eight results, win or lose, which he soon found out. So anyway, he was able to cum. A few days later, he was ready to try his luck again. Rolls 2-8 were duds. According to the terms he had agreed to, that meant no orgasm at all. Oh happy day. lol In his desperation, kelli eagerly paid for a guaranteed orgasm and set about accomplishing his deed. Then I receive this email:

I spent yesterday trying to get over what happened. You see after you told me I could cum.. I was in bed stroking. I edged once as you wished, then I edged again. This time I had to really fight back the climax.. it felt so good to squeez it off.. to deny myself that pleasure. The pre-cum flowed out of me.. and I was still rock hard.. so I started to stroke again. Getting closer and closer … and then I guess I wanted to feel that again so I stroked and as I felt the building of my orgasm I stroked slower and slower, working up to a climax. I wanted to cum, but just as I started to feel that swelling and push for release.. I squeezed hard to cut it offf.. God! it hurt so bad.. but I felt I had cut it offf.. and the pre-cum flowed out of me.. I layed there waiting to cool offf a bit and stroke again. But my dick went soft and I couldn’t get it back up/.. I touched the pre-cum and realized I had cum…. but not climaxed.. I had squeezed off the climax but the cum just oozed out of me.. I couldn’t believe I had done that.. I tried and tried to jerk off, but couldn’t… so you gave me a gift orgasm and I screwed it up..

I guess donating an orgasm to pet project did nothing to improve his Cum Karma. LOL If you liked that, panty-kelli, maybe next time we’ll try milking you with your pink dildo, Tinkerbell. hahaha
On a totally separate note, I am in lust with Victoria’s Secret’s silk halter babydoll in silver, item number 200-655. For anyone that’s interested. (purchased by petproject) I really should be concentrating more on my upcoming move instead of drooling over lingerie. Oh well. Some things can’t be helped.