I’m thrilled to join the ranks of Elite Fetish Award recipients. Now I get to choose a few of my favorite sites for nomination.

ELITE FETISH AWARD

Recognition for those sites and individuals who perform
outstanding support within the BDSM/Fetish Community
and for their continued efforts in keeping the
Kink in Kinky!!

Awarded to

Abigail of SeductiveDomination.com
by Lady Sascha

It seems like I’ve been working on my new website, WankerLand.com, for ever. I finally have it the way I like and now I just need to add info, blog posts etc. If you’re a dirty little wanker that’s into erotic humiliation (cuckold, financial exploitation, small penis humiliation, extreme verbal abuse and more) then visit, bookmark and call the mean bitches in my group. lol
The “lawnboy” that’s been taking care of my yard all summer isn’t doing the job as well as I’d like. He’s also really starting to bore me, so I’m going to have to find someone new. Sure, I had free lawncare and he was fun to pick on and tease but it’s time to move on. Which of you Princess spoilers are just dying to pay for this necessity? Message me and we’ll work something out. lol
I just have to show off the new Steve Madden, deep red, patent leather, peep-toed maryjanes (that’s a mouthful, huh?) that buster sent. Aren’t they gorgeous? Oh, and buster, there’s that perfect little open space for you to lick my toes.

I just updated my contact page (click here to read). In the past I’d always charged a $100 fee for my Yahoo chat ID. Now I’m posting the ID and I will answer your basic questions. Anything beyond that will still require the fee. Go read the page for all the details. The main reason I decided to do this is because a few of you have found me in various chat rooms anyway. Remain respectful and I’ll answer any BASIC questions before we move on to the real fun.
The envelope game has been going very well. For the most part, puppets have followed the directions but I have to laugh the few times someone has gotten the ‘Stop Now’ envelope and… kept going. hahaha Hey, I’ll take your money any day but you really are missing the entire point of the game.
Buster the shoe puppy has done a wonderful job of filling my high heel shoe rack. There’s only one open spot left and then I’ll need a new rack. lol Want to see all of the high heels I’ve received? Click here. Here’s a photo of one of my newest pairs:

I’ve recently updated my Amazon wishlist. So it’s time for you to go shopping. Then you can vote for my wonderful website.
Special note: Check your niteflirt mail. Some of you received a pay-to-view message from me. Inside are photos of me you’ve never seen before (and probably never will again). That special privilege dictates the high price.

The weather is warmer, the women are wearing less and you guys are thrilled. lol I can’t wait to start teasing the silly men around here. Foot fetish boys are seeing more and more toes, soles, heels and arches. Shoes fetish boys will have a nicely frustrating summer full of sandals, wedges and peep-toe heels. I’m currently smitten with wedges and my shoe slave, buster, is more than happy to satisfy my pretty-shoe urges. Nothing could be more summery than my new steve madden shoes. Wouldn’t you agree? lol

On a different note, I want to mention a couple of things. First is Angela St. Lawrence’s post about Romantic Humiliation. He doesn’t mention it much in his blog, but petproject can certainly identify with much of what she wrote. lol That brand of humiliation may seem the meanest, but I have to say I get the most enjoyment out of it.
Secondly, I want to remind some of you to check your niteflirt/keen mail for the “The Lost Puppet Amnesty Program” message I sent out today. If I haven’t heard from you in a while, you should have the email. Yes, I do have my kind moments. Take advantage of them while you can.

Too much of my precious time has been spent on recent posts about the wankers that have crossed my path. I know many of you like to laugh at them along with me, but tonight’s post is all about my good boys.
I’m happy to say that petproject is traveling down the forced intoxication highway at break-neck speed. lol Who needs milk in your cereal when you have Baileys Irish Cream? I “help” him plan alcohol shopping trips and then tell him when, what and how much to drink. There have even been the occasional “drink cam” viewings. When I feel like it, I’ll click over to see his glass to determine if he’s drinking fast enough or not. hahaha You can read a little about it on his blog (link to the left). By the way… he still hasn’t had an orgasm. Two months and counting. A round of applause is in order. It’s gotten to the point where he doesn’t even mention it anymore, so maybe I’ll let him cum this weekend…
A trip to my mailbox on Thursday ended up with some random guy helping me carry the many boxes to my car. Included in this huge stack of gifts were two pairs of SteveMadden shoes (one pictured below) and two boxes of bath stuff off my Amazon wishlist… all from my favorite puppy, buster. He also preordered another pair of shoes that aren’t available until this summer. I HAD to have them! lol Such a wonderful little shoe slave. Too bad my puppy will be away all week. I’m in the mood to play.
There’s been a new addition to my fetish funhouse. Two of my favorite things all rolled into one package: financial domination and masturbation & orgasm control. Yum. I usually slip orgasm control into all of my sessions… because I like it so much, but when they come to me already craving my control over when and if they cum… Ahhh It doesn’t get much better than that. lol
Before this gets too long, I wanted to include recent feedback comments left by my puppets. For those that don’t know how niteflirt works, after any paid interaction with me, my boys are able to leave a “review” for everyone to read.

From busterThePuppy: “Thank you Mistress Abigail for taking your puppy buster and letting him spend the entire day at your feet. Thank you for letting your buster need you, yearn for you, wait for and on you. Thank you Mistress.”

From addictlion: “I was a bad wanker who came without permission. I am now not allowed to touch my cock and I must write an essay about how amazing Mistress Abigail is. She has total control of my cock, my stroking, my orgasms and my money.”

From AbigailsToy: “My Mistress was so kind tonight to let me cum tonight. She didn’t make it easy though. She took me to the edge countless times while she giggled at my frustration…that wonderful frustration…in the end it was worth it. But then again the fun is getting there, no matter the outcome. Being on edge for Mistress Abigail is the ultimate thrill, jus waiting for her insruction. I would do anything for her!!”

I love reading my feedback. lol Now for that photo of my new brown, leather pumps from buster:

I can’t believe I didn’t write a single entry for all of February. Especially since so much happened. Well, now that I think of it much of what’s happened has been in my private life and really isn’t any of your business. However your perverted private lives are open for me to talk about, aren’t they? lol Let’s see… petproject has been keeping me in Godiva chocolate and my Senseo coffee pods this year. I’ve been keeping him orgasm-free. Just imagine the relief you too could feel when you no longer have to worry about when/if you can cum. Aussie boy has begged (again) for my attention. He likes “mean girls” with a little humiliation and financial domination thrown in. The problem is that he never has any money. It’s so sad when you can’t even afford your own fetish. hahaha My favorite puppy, buster, has resurfaced and I have two new pairs of boots. The photo below is of the newest pair. I actually have three new pairs but I’m sending one back because my puppy took it upon himself to buy bright pink boots for me. The style is great. The color is not. I know buster would love it if I kept the boots because they would definitely turn heads around town. lol Isn’t he the cutest?

There have also been my regular tease and denial callers (set up those appointments boys) and the nervous twitters from my financial domination mainstays (who’s ready for some more wallet pruning?) Besides all of that loveliness, there have been a couple of… oddballs. lol There’s one weirdo that pays for my contact form at least once a week. He never fills it out. Never emails me with questions. Nothing. Just week after week he pays the $5. Maybe he’s another that’s into financial domination but can’t actually afford it? I guess my cheap contact form serves as the fast food value meal of findom. LOL Silly boy, you should at least graduate to the $20 confessional over there on the left.

I’ve saved the best for last. I wrote a little note to Wanker X in the last entry. He’s boring. He never wants to do any of the things he promises. Keep in mind these are things he brought up and wanted to do. He’s pathetic in more ways than I feel like going into here. Wanker X knows he won’t be receiving very much of my attention until he shapes up. So what does he do? He keeps sending $50+ tributes with “i’m so sorry, Mistress” in the subject line and “i’m a wanker” in the body of the email. That’s still pathetic and boring so I haven’t felt the desire to reply. This post should cover the next few dozen sad attempts. lol
Now I think I’ll walk around in just my new boots while eating chocolate. Ciao.

My play-puppy, buster, is a delightful pet in so many ways. He begs for many things and one of those is to buy shoes for me. It had gotten to the point where all I had to do was mention I liked a certain pair and my puppy would start whining and whimpering for permission to buy them. A few days ago, he was begging to buy this lovely pair of “Wicked” pumps by Carlos Santana simply because I expressed interest in them. It’s rewarding to have such an attentive puppet, but I wanted to make sure there was real feeling behind the purchases and not just a Pavlovian response to my “I like these…” comments. I gave buster an assignment before I allowed him to buy these pumps. Like the wonderful puppy he is, he went above and beyond what I was looking for in the assignment and I had to share what he wrote. After all of that, how could I refuse his request? The new shoes are on their way to me now. lol

Click here to read the assignment buster turned in: (more…)

My birthday is next week. I’ve already received a few early presents but, being the greedy woman that I am, I want more. I want to be showered in gifts, gift certificates and lots of lovely money. Click those tribute buttons and make me happy. I really don’t think anything more needs to be said.
So that this entry isn’t incredibly short, I’ll include one of the photos I took for buster’s private picture collection. That’s a big pile of shoes I’ve received as gifts (over the past year) with the newest pair on my pretty feet. More shoes are on the way. My buster is a very good shoe puppy.

Since this post will be a hodgepodge of topics, I’ve decided to create the Femdom News. These posts won’t be as newsworthy as the title suggests. I just like it and now have a title for the times I only have miscellaneous tidbits to share. (Wishing I wore glasses so I could slip on a pair of ultra-sexy, geek-girl glasses while I read the “news” to my faithful viewers.)
1. The top story is my announcement of the upcoming Wanker Games. This will be an email tease and denial game. You will receive emails from me once or twice each day with instructions as well as personalized replies to your messages. I’m still ironing out the details and setting up the first few tasks. Registration will be free but having a NiteFlirt account is required. If you don’t have one, go ahead and sign up now. The prize? You mean besides free attention from me? Greedy bastards. lol That’s something else I’m still working on but as of now one of the possible prizes will be a custom recording for you to own. Other ideas are welcome. Come back later for more details.
2. The latest puppet to purchase my Yahoo ID for (practically) unlimited online chat hails from Australia. He is very lucky since he’s one of the few people online when I’m up really late. He likes mean girls. LOL I get to tease him all night in chat and he keeps sending all of his money. After three days of orgasm denial, he was already begging and paying for release. He is in for a big surprise, isn’t he? hahaha
3. In the column on the left, there is a new section called the Puppet Blogs. So far I have two males with their very own blogs. Pet Project is mainly into financial domination, tease and denial… oh forget it. He gets turned on by way too many things for me to type them all. The Fool is a small penis humiliation freak. You can add all blogs (mine and theirs) to whatever syndication service you prefer like Yahoo, Google etc by clicking the appropriate links on each blog and you’ll see any updates right away. Feel free to leave comments on their blogs. They are instructed to be respectful and helpful at all times.
4. Puppy Tim is back and making up for lost time. We’re spending a lot of time at the stevemadden.com site where there are tons of yummy shoes for his owner. I just received a pair of Lalo white patent heels and he will be getting a picture of those soon. On the way are two more pairs: Indigoo pumps in bone patent (to complete my collection) and a “design your own” pair of Lustas in red patent with the natural wood heel. He’s been a very good shoe pet and I can’t wait to reward him when I receive the pumps. Poor puppy was hoping the tribute he sent tonight would pay for an early orgasm but that’s not how it works, is it pet? lol
That’s all for now. Don’t forget to register with NF if you’re hoping to participate in my Wanker Games. Certain puppets of mine are not eligible, but I enjoy it when you beg so try to convince me.

Puppy Tim has been my play puppy, my pay puppy and my whining, begging, denied puppy. Now he is also my shoe puppy. Every week he is now tasked with the job of finding his owner new shoes. He’s been buying shoes for me off and on for months now, but we’re starting a structured shoe-hunt. My little pet must search online for high heels that he hopes I will like and submit his findings weekly. If he’s done his job properly, I allow him to buy a pair. Little puppies get so excited when you tell them they’re good boys. lol While I wait for the delivery, I tease and deny him until he’s so worked up that he’s begging and yipping. Poor guy isn’t given permission to cum until I have the heels in my possession and like them as much on my feet as I did online. In round two, puppy found the most perfect shoe ever after I told him to look for anything in blue. I loved them so much that he was then allowed to buy the same style in red and black. Perhaps I’ll let him buy the entire line for me in every color.
At the moment, Tim is out of town and I miss my pet. When he gets back, he has an extra task of buying a new leather leash. If you’d like to see the recent purchases he’s made, head to my ‘tributes and gifts’ page and visit the Amazon wishlist link. You’ll see the items I currently want but if you click on the ‘puchased’ drop down link you’ll see my newest shoes. He’s paid for every pair there except for the black sandals. Panty-boy kelli bought those as a parting gift because our session became a bit too intense for him. lol Here’s a picture of the black pumps on my lovely feet.

puppyTim had been absent for a while. Me, being incredibly patient, understood that things come up and we can’t all play non-stop. But even my patience can wear thin so I sent him an expensive pay-to-view email demanding his attention. I’d missed my favorite puppy’s adoration. Yes, he’d purchased the Chanel sunglasses from my Amazon wishlist a few weeks ago as a little forget-me-not but that wasn’t nearly enough. Last night puppyTim messaged me on Yahoo after paying for the email. His apologies were accepted (I’m also very forgiving) and he was once again his cute little puppy self… following me around and licking my toes during a very lovely call. Welcome back, pet and happy birthday.
Some of you have really latched on to the idea of a weekly confessional. I’ll be adding the button for that over on the left when I get a chance. I’ve read some nasty emails. Have you people no shame?! Perverts are so fun. LOL One male attached a picture of his tiny penis to his confession. At least I think that’s what it was… I’ve never seen anything quite like it. He’s probably hoping I’ll add it to my blog, but do I really want to scare my readers away? Perhaps I’ll create a small penis humiliation page and post all of the little dick photos that come my way. Don’t worry, I’ll give everyone advance warning so you don’t spit out your coffee when you click the link.
I’m toying with the idea of allowing a few of my puppets to blog on my website. Pet Project has kept an online diary for me for almost two years, so I know he’ll update regularly. Anyone else that’s interested will have to prove they’re worth my effort before I add more blogs. I have to upload the software and customize the look, so it takes a fair bit of my time. Hopefully, I’ll have PP’s blog up and running within the next couple of weeks.
For those that are interested, I’ve added a few new things to my Amazon wishlist. You can see it by heading to my “tributes and gifts” page. Once you’re there, you’ll know what to do. lol

I’ve received quite a few emails asking about financial domination. What exactly is financial domination? What is the appeal to the submissive guy? Why, oh why would they give so much money to someone they’ve never met in person? I’m hardly an expert on the subject, but I’ll share my conclusions (which I’m constantly revising and updating).
So far I’ve dealt with three different types of submissives that have been interested in submitting to me financially: humiliation junkies, princess spoilers and “oh-my-god-I shouldn’t-do-this-but-I-can’t-help-myself” financial ruin freaks. For the vast majority this is only one of the ways they want to serve. Sending me tributes and gifts is not their only fetish. If they have a foot fetish or shoe fetish, are excited by cuckold roleplay, tease and denial, humiliation or mind control then financial domination adds an extra edge to our play. It’s a thrill. It’s a type of edge play they can experience long distance.
Humiliation Junkies know they aren’t worthy of my attention so they pay for it. These boys often come and go as their hardons dictate. The more I humiliate them by picking on their particular short coming(s), the more excited they get until they finally explode in a horrified, blushing ecstasy. Paying for the privilege of my attention just adds to the embarrassment.
Princess Spoilers obviously want someone to spoil. They love to send gifts in the hopes of making me happy. Some like to pay bills (rent, car payment etc) and some like to support a type of lifestyle (manicures, spa visits, jewelry, shopping trips etc). They feel all warm and cozy when they make me smile. Princess spoilers have a special place in my heart when they work to anticipate my needs and desires.
Financial Ruination Freaks gravitate towards extreme fetishes, fantasies and roleplays. They crave that feeling of helplessness when I control their behaviour. They sometimes fantasize about working an extra job, cutting their own spending down to the bare essentials or selling their house and living in a cheap apartment just to send me more money. They run up their credit cards and apply for more (with my encouragement). Even though I’m laughing at their impending doom, humiliation isn’t the main factor in their excitement. It’s more of an expected by-product. After all, who wouldn’t laugh at some spineless worm that can’t control his own purse strings? I really enjoy hearing how they have to eat ramen noodles every day while I’m taking my girlfriends out to eat.
This email I received sums up the thoughts of those toying with the idea of financial domination:

Dear Miss Abigail, i love Your website and i’ve read every single page. i’ve paid special attention to Your writings on financial domination and i don’t know why but thinking about You controlling my money drives me crazy. i know it makes no sense and i try not to give in but what You write touches some part of me and it both scares and excites me. i try to stay away but every day i come back hoping theres another picture of Your beautiful feet or more written thoughts from Your cunning mind. Sending You this email probably isn’t a good idea and part of me hopes You won’t write back. (another part of me will be checking every hour hoping that You do) If You check Your niteflirt account You will see a $300 gift from (member name withheld). Even if we never speak i wanted to thank You for the kindness and thoughfulness i sense in Your writings. i’ve read many websites of other financial Dommes but something about You seems true and honest. Submitting my mind and wallet to You is what i dream about. Faithfully Yours, (name withheld)

Those of you that just send a silly message saying “please take my money” should take notes from him. You’ve probably figured that out since I don’t respond to such lame attempts for my attention. A respectful email and a thoughtful gift will get you much further… even if you don’t necessarily want to go there. lol
Again, these are my experiences in the financial domination arena. Just like any fetish or fantasy, there are as many variations on the theme as there are participants. I’d love to hear your views on the subject. Either leave a comment here or send an email. Here’s a photo of my “beautiful feet” in pantyhose just for you, email boy. Enjoy.

Yes, I know that Valentine’s Day was created by the greeting card companies but us ladies still love to receive tokens of your affection on this very commercial day. I know that quite a few of you boys perv on my blog on a regular basis. Show your appreciation by clicking one of the tribute buttons on the right. A gift from your wallet will make this a very happy day for me. lol Here’s a quick snapshot I took with glittery pumps, a feather boa and the Wolford thigh high stockings that puppy Tim purchased from my Amazon wishlist. I played around with my photo editing software to make it all pink and festive for you. Now thank me properly.

I haven’t yet gone live with my new NiteFlirt ‘tease and denial’ and ‘foot and shoe fetish’ lines, but I’ve already had a couple of very fun t&d calls. One boy certainly knew what the “denial” part was all about. The other was a little… confused. lol He said he wanted tease and denial but what he really wanted was masturbation control. Yes, puppets, there is a difference and I’ve written about this before. I enjoy both scenarios so if you have any questions, feel free to send an email (the info is on my contact page).
Both puppy tim and whipped jim have purchased gifts for me from my Amazon wishlist. Aren’t they just the sweetest? I now have the mini tripod (thank you, puppy) so I will try to take more photos this week. I have some lovely new shoes to show off. Maybe I’ll eventually get the hang of this new-fangled photo-graphy thing. hahaha In the meantime, here’s the picture of my ass-kicking boots that I promised.

I had the most delicious dream last night. I had a naked man sit on a stool in the middle of a room. There was nothing but hardwood floors and concrete walls around us. I was wearing a sheer top, a black mini skirt, black tights and boots and I had my crop in hand. He could only sit and watch as I walked around him. Then I crouched in front of him and slid a leather harness around his cock and balls. The harness was attached to a metal ring in the floor. I stood up and started teasing his cock with my crop. The best part was that as he got harder, the leash connecting him to the floor got shorter. Eventually he had to slide off the stool and onto his knees. It kept getting shorter until finally he was lying on his stomach on the cold floor. I laughed as he kept turning his head this way and that trying to watch me as I started walking around him again. I began to use my crop on his back, ass and legs and then…. I woke up. grrrrrr I hate it when that happens!
I’m guessing I had this dream because yesterday I took a few pictures while wearing tights and boots. I took some with my crop and some without. Since I’m a horrible photographer (another reason I was so thrilled with the last photo) only a couple turned out. I may post one or two later.