I’ve received quite a few emails asking about financial domination. What exactly is financial domination? What is the appeal to the submissive guy? Why, oh why would they give so much money to someone they’ve never met in person? I’m hardly an expert on the subject, but I’ll share my conclusions (which I’m constantly revising and updating).
So far I’ve dealt with three different types of submissives that have been interested in submitting to me financially: humiliation junkies, princess spoilers and “oh-my-god-I shouldn’t-do-this-but-I-can’t-help-myself” financial ruin freaks. For the vast majority this is only one of the ways they want to serve. Sending me tributes and gifts is not their only fetish. If they have a foot fetish or shoe fetish, are excited by cuckold roleplay, tease and denial, humiliation or mind control then financial domination adds an extra edge to our play. It’s a thrill. It’s a type of edge play they can experience long distance.
Humiliation Junkies know they aren’t worthy of my attention so they pay for it. These boys often come and go as their hardons dictate. The more I humiliate them by picking on their particular short coming(s), the more excited they get until they finally explode in a horrified, blushing ecstasy. Paying for the privilege of my attention just adds to the embarrassment.
Princess Spoilers obviously want someone to spoil. They love to send gifts in the hopes of making me happy. Some like to pay bills (rent, car payment etc) and some like to support a type of lifestyle (manicures, spa visits, jewelry, shopping trips etc). They feel all warm and cozy when they make me smile. Princess spoilers have a special place in my heart when they work to anticipate my needs and desires.
Financial Ruination Freaks gravitate towards extreme fetishes, fantasies and roleplays. They crave that feeling of helplessness when I control their behaviour. They sometimes fantasize about working an extra job, cutting their own spending down to the bare essentials or selling their house and living in a cheap apartment just to send me more money. They run up their credit cards and apply for more (with my encouragement). Even though I’m laughing at their impending doom, humiliation isn’t the main factor in their excitement. It’s more of an expected by-product. After all, who wouldn’t laugh at some spineless worm that can’t control his own purse strings? I really enjoy hearing how they have to eat ramen noodles every day while I’m taking my girlfriends out to eat.
This email I received sums up the thoughts of those toying with the idea of financial domination:

Dear Miss Abigail, i love Your website and i’ve read every single page. i’ve paid special attention to Your writings on financial domination and i don’t know why but thinking about You controlling my money drives me crazy. i know it makes no sense and i try not to give in but what You write touches some part of me and it both scares and excites me. i try to stay away but every day i come back hoping theres another picture of Your beautiful feet or more written thoughts from Your cunning mind. Sending You this email probably isn’t a good idea and part of me hopes You won’t write back. (another part of me will be checking every hour hoping that You do) If You check Your niteflirt account You will see a $300 gift from (member name withheld). Even if we never speak i wanted to thank You for the kindness and thoughfulness i sense in Your writings. i’ve read many websites of other financial Dommes but something about You seems true and honest. Submitting my mind and wallet to You is what i dream about. Faithfully Yours, (name withheld)

Those of you that just send a silly message saying “please take my money” should take notes from him. You’ve probably figured that out since I don’t respond to such lame attempts for my attention. A respectful email and a thoughtful gift will get you much further… even if you don’t necessarily want to go there. lol
Again, these are my experiences in the financial domination arena. Just like any fetish or fantasy, there are as many variations on the theme as there are participants. I’d love to hear your views on the subject. Either leave a comment here or send an email. Here’s a photo of my “beautiful feet” in pantyhose just for you, email boy. Enjoy.

There are quite a few reasons you may want me to tease and deny you. 1. you’re a sad loser lacking all social graces and you can’t find a woman that even cares to see your penis, much less fuck you, so why should I treat you any differently? 2. you want to please me and you know how much I enjoy keeping your aroused for as long as possible and then denying you an orgasm. Rinse and repeat. lol 3. you realize how much better that orgasm will feel when you have to wait a very long time for it, never knowing when you’ll finally be rewarded. I step in to help you achieve that since you don’t have enough self control on your own. Of course there are other reasons, but those are the top three that came to mind.
How does cuckolding fit into that? Well, the gist of cuckolding is that the object of your desire is screwing someone (everyone) besides you. Maybe you get to watch. Maybe you get to hear about it afterwards. Maybe you can only imagine what’s going on while you’re left at home. A lucky few of you may even get to help. Fluffers and cream pies, anyone? hahaha Unfortunately, you never get to fuck. Never fucking means never cumming. Sure you can jerk it as you listen to her moan, but does such a weak and pathetic excuse for a man really deserve an orgasm? It’s possible your lack of size makes the woman in your life run off to let a hung stud service her. I think a regimen of constant stroking and a ton of wishful thinking is in order. Cuckolds of the world, all is not lost! Staying constantly hard and showing your devotion daily may earn you that prize you seek. Probably not, but you never know. lol