Today I just want to share a couple of links that were passed on to me. The first is from one of my favorite websites, lingerie sellers, agentprovocateur.com. They’ve had a movie made called “Tied Up at the Office”. The trailer is very *ahem* interesting. lol You do have to register for the site to view it, but I’m sure you won’t mind.
The other link is an ad for the Mini. Let’s see… a tall beauty in head-to-toe black, using a whip, flogger, paddle, feather tickler and crop. She also teases with the keys and I love it when she plays with the antenna. hahaha There’s lots to click on, but if you just hang out you can watch her do different things. Enjoy.
p.s. If you know of any similar online ads, leave a comment to this post.

I haven’t yet gone live with my new NiteFlirt ‘tease and denial’ and ‘foot and shoe fetish’ lines, but I’ve already had a couple of very fun t&d calls. One boy certainly knew what the “denial” part was all about. The other was a little… confused. lol He said he wanted tease and denial but what he really wanted was masturbation control. Yes, puppets, there is a difference and I’ve written about this before. I enjoy both scenarios so if you have any questions, feel free to send an email (the info is on my contact page).
Both puppy tim and whipped jim have purchased gifts for me from my Amazon wishlist. Aren’t they just the sweetest? I now have the mini tripod (thank you, puppy) so I will try to take more photos this week. I have some lovely new shoes to show off. Maybe I’ll eventually get the hang of this new-fangled photo-graphy thing. hahaha In the meantime, here’s the picture of my ass-kicking boots that I promised.

I had the most delicious dream last night. I had a naked man sit on a stool in the middle of a room. There was nothing but hardwood floors and concrete walls around us. I was wearing a sheer top, a black mini skirt, black tights and boots and I had my crop in hand. He could only sit and watch as I walked around him. Then I crouched in front of him and slid a leather harness around his cock and balls. The harness was attached to a metal ring in the floor. I stood up and started teasing his cock with my crop. The best part was that as he got harder, the leash connecting him to the floor got shorter. Eventually he had to slide off the stool and onto his knees. It kept getting shorter until finally he was lying on his stomach on the cold floor. I laughed as he kept turning his head this way and that trying to watch me as I started walking around him again. I began to use my crop on his back, ass and legs and then…. I woke up. grrrrrr I hate it when that happens!
I’m guessing I had this dream because yesterday I took a few pictures while wearing tights and boots. I took some with my crop and some without. Since I’m a horrible photographer (another reason I was so thrilled with the last photo) only a couple turned out. I may post one or two later.

I’ve created new listings for ‘foot and shoe fetish’ and ‘tease and denial’. NF approved them in record time so I’ll go live with them soon. I am in love with the thumbnail picture on the t&d listing. Is it bad to be in love with your own picture? lol I’ll include a larger version here so we can all stare at it together.

I was parked in a Yahoo chatroom the other day. A fellow Domme looked at this blog and took offense to the definition for ‘femdom’ that’s in the upper-left corner. She said that it would lead males to believe a woman’s power was only sexual. Sigh. Well, since I’m not there in person to dominate you 24/7 (critiquing your housekeeping, giving you an allowance, letting you serve me breakfast in bed etc) that means it pretty much IS sexual for the purpose of my website. As the cliche goes, the little head thinks for the big head. When you’re in that state of nirvana where the very thought of following my directions makes you all tingly, then it’s sexual. I always hear comments like: “I get so hard when I think about worshipping your feet”, “I’ve been aching all day waiting for an email from you”, “Please, I’m begging you! May I come for you, Mistress?”, “May I be your living sex toy and please you?” Yep, all sexual. Perhaps it’s me. Perhaps I’m the sexual one. I refuse to deny it. There’s no big, bad, scary Dominatrix here that insists her vagina is off limits. I have a beautiful pussy and I use it against you. Why on earth would I give up such a wonderful teasing tool just to adhere to some old school femdom rulebook? This is my little corner of the internet and I’m the one in charge. I am a dominant woman. I can do what I like.
On a similar note, you’ve probably noticed that I don’t capitalize “me, mine or my”. I don’t need to change English language rules to prove my dominance. I can’t be bothered. I do like it when I receive an email from a sweet submissive boy that went to the trouble to capitalize every “you, you’re and your”. Although it’s not necessary, attention to detail like that makes me smile.

If you look at the upper-left side, you’ll see links under “Important Pages”. I’ve updated my contact page, I’ve added my Amazon wishlist to the gifts/tributes page and I’ve created a new page for my so-called phone sex recordings. In the future there will be pages on financial domination, male chastity, tease and denial, foot fetish, shoe fetish, stocking and pantyhose fetish, cuckolds, puppy play and whatever else strikes my fancy.
Speaking of puppy play, Jasmine has written an excellent blog post on the subject. If that’s someting you’re interested in you should check it out. bdsm puppy play I’m betting she’s an incredibly cute puppy.

Everyone should thank whipped Jim for choosing the pink glitter nailpolish. In this picture I’d only painted my big toe. I wonder how badly he’d like to see all of my toes sparkle?

I see that quite a few of you have clicked the “form” link on my contact page, but only a handful have actually paid and filled it out. What’s the matter? Are you scared? hahaha Don’t worry. I don’t bite… oh, wait. Yes, I do, but only in a really fun way. I know one boy that is scared of me. Whenever I send him “pay to view” mail, he pays and then hides. He did respond to the last email I sent and I thank him for the laugh. Something about refusing to be my toy and then wanting to worship my toes? LOL
So, whipped Jim, if you read this here’s a picture for you. You can beg to kiss my beautiful behind or you can send a gift via NiteFlirt and maybe I’ll put up a picture of those toes you so adore.

A quick post to show off all of the panties I ordered with puppy Tim’s gift certificate. Such a good pet…

Over the past two years I’ve gotten many calls from males that see me mention ‘tease and denial’ (t&d) as one of my favorite types of play. They want to be good boys so they try to please me by saying they want to be teased and denied. I’d say 90% have no clue what they’re asking for. There is a difference, dear puppets, between masturbation control and orgasm DENIAL. Both involve teasing (at least when you’re playing with me) but one is much more delicious than the other. During a masturbation control session, I tell you how to touch yourself. I tell you when to stop and start. I whisper all sorts of naughty things in your ear and if you’re lucky you may even have the chance to hear me pleasure myself. There’s nothing quite like the moans of frustration from you as you’re forced to STOP touching and just listen. hahaha I eventually allow you to orgasm, but only after you’ve begged and pleaded and promised me the world. That’s how I control your masturbation and your orgasm.
Now let’s look at the term ‘tease and denial’. Tease? Yes, we’ve covered that. Denial? Hmmm… The dictionary defines it as “refusal to grant or allow something “. Do you think it hurts me when I refuse to let you orgasm? Of course not. I’m tickled pink when you’re near tears because your balls are aching and you’re so close that one more stroke would send you over the edge. I’m thrilled and excited when you whimper and beg for release. I’m downright affectionate as I deny you day after day after day. I wonder how far I can push you, what you’ll promise me, how deep I can get into your mind and when will you finally break. Oh, don’t give up. After all, I could let you cum at any moment.